#alexjbrimmer

[blankmogai]

Heya! Could I see an ey/em/eirs pronoun flag?

here you go!

[apersnicketylemon]

The problem with i-am-a-fish wasn't the joke. It was the people he was following on Twitter.

Who was he following? I am very out of the loop so all I heard anyone complain about was the joke and then claims of pedophilia with the ‘proof’ being that he made like 3 jokes about sex which... isn’t pedophilia (If you have other information though I would love to hear it!) 

[agenderootd]

Hello! Is that like an agenderqueer flag in your profile pic or is it something else?

From my understanding, it’s the widely accepted agender flag!  

Personally I love it since purple and green are both very magic-associated colors, but that’s just me.  

[nbandproud]

Do you have resources on nonbinary men specifically? I'm trying to find info on it.

I’m not sure of what kind of resources you want?

A nonbinary man is, usually, someone who does feel a connection to maleness and/or masculinity in some way, but who doesn’t completely identify as a [binary] man.

Some examples of people who may consider themselves nonbinary men are:

People who feel like they are partly, but not wholly, men; for instance, someone who is 15% a man and 85% genderless, or someone who is 70% a man and 30% a woman

People who don’t feel like they are binary at all, but who don’t mind being considered men with regards to attraction, transition, day-to-day life and/or so on to make things easier and/or because they identify with some ideas related to maleness and/or masculinity

People who are men, but feel alienated from the idea of being binary men because of some other identity they have, or because they feel like they interpret being a man in a way that’s different from what their society considers a man

People who are men some/most of the time, but not always; such as a genderfluid person who is usually a man but who sometimes has other/no gender(s)

People whose genders are a blend between man and something else

People who feel like their gender is close to that of a binary man’s, but just the label man on it’s own doesn’t fit

People who are nonbinary and masculine and prefer to say they are nonbinary men instead of using masculine-specific labels (such as mingender or ceteromasculine)

People who are proxvirs, demimen, quivermen, neuvirs, nixvirs, melles, neuromen, agender men, genderless men, genderflux men, demifluid men, duramen, androxes, xoys and other identities that mean you are a man in some way

It’s worth noting that not all people who use those labels and/or have these experiences use the label of nonbinary man. This list just means they theoretically could. And there are probably other reasons people identify as nonbinary men I don’t know of/don’t remember right now.

It may also be worth noting nonbinary men may use any pronouns sets they want, and may have had any gender assignment at birth.

I sadly can’t source these, since they come with personal experience from reading about experiences and the ways people use labels. The nonbinary man and nonbinary boy tags are full of general nonbinary/transmasculine/transgender posts with the occasional selfie, so I can’t link to anything, and most sites’ definitions of nonbinary man are either vague or lacking, imho.

I sent some messages to group chats I’m in, to see if there’s any nonbinary man/boy I can forward further questions to. If someone takes the offer, I’ll tag them on a reply to this post. I’m not a nonbinary man/boy myself, after all.

If any follower is a NB man/boy and wants to offer their help as well, feel free to reply!

[xeno-aligned]

alexjbrimmer replied to your photoset “Exogender A gender that is beyond gender; a non-existent gender;...”

Hmm. Tiny critique: I feel that it should be renamed to not have the -gender part in the word. It'd be more fitting than something that is not a gender and has no relation to any gender.

a good point! although i wont change it, 1) i’m not the person who coined it, & 2) it’s a “gender beyond gender ... a word to fill the gap”, so i think it works to have it include -gender. after all, agender also includes -gender! (a = without, exo = beyond)

[legoisland]

he has many names but this one's my favorite

[mogaicore]

alexjbrimmer ha respondido a tu publicación “Can anti-endogenics interact? There’s nothing about it on your byf and...”

It's ableist to be honest. To be anti-endo. You don't know why someone may be a system in the first place.

I agree, and thats why I said I dont feel like I’m informed enough to even have an opinion. I have no problem with endos at all, tho.

[neurogender]

alexjbrimmer replied to your post “a small collection of neurodivergency-themed pronouns bee / beep / dee...”

If you create pronouns based on neurotypes, you HAVE to make them accessible. The conjugation has to make sense. Instead of sp/lit/ting a word up and thinking that's easy for people to use. It's like you want the points for supporting neurodiversity but without the uncomfortable effort it takes to be a good ally.

first, i’m not trying to come across as aggressive, but i’m not “wanting points for supporting neurodiversity”, i am neurodiverse. i specifically have these neurotypes, which is why i made pronouns based on them, for other people with these neurotypes. it’s not being an ally if it’s literally what you are.

second, what parts do you find inaccessible? i’m more than happy to take constructive criticism. i tried to make them similar to other pronouns - co/cos for example is an old, well-used set, which i mimicked in co/psy. shh/shh is a set i’ve seen around before as well. of course, like someone else already said in the notes, anyone who uses these are welcome to change them to suit them, or to be more accessible in whatever way they find fitting.

also, splitting a word to make pronouns is literally how most nounself pronouns are made? sure, there’s modification happening (like i did with shh/iz, for example), but if a word works as a pronoun set simply by being split (like an/xi), then... why not?