PAMELA AND HOW SHE IS PROTECTIVE OF THOSE SHE LOVES
Oh lord. I’m going to try to be concise with this.
Pamela has a near infinite capacity for love and caring and patience, and once you’ve proven to her that you are deserving of that love or if you’re lucky enough to be born into it, it’s hard to do something that will shake it. This aspect of her comes from her past as Pleione because when you’re a sister and a mother of so many, it’s nearly impossible not to have such a large heart.
If you are one of the few that she’s devoted such emotion to, you’re lucky because she will do everything in her power to see you happy and safe regardless of what harm it may cause her or sacrifice she must make. She doesn’t care for herself or her own feelings nearly as much as she does for the people she loves, and if you endanger them or hurt them, she intends to find you and make you pay in the most excruciating way possible. She is a mama bear in every sense of the word.
She’ll do whatever she thinks is best even if the person she’s trying to protect doesn’t necessarily agree with her, which is a fault of her protective nature. She does think she knows best, probably because she’s spent so long looking out for people. She’ll take these tiny things like Clara having a crush on a boy and make a mountain out of a molehill because she doesn’t want to see her get hurt and Pamela likes to think she knows how men are since she’s spent the past few years sailing with several.
Part of her protectiveness though, is because she’s afraid of losing the people she loves. If all of them suddenly disappeared, she wouldn’t know what to do with herself because she dedicates her life to them more than she does to herself. The idea of losing them scares her silly, so she clings to them too tightly and her protectiveness can actually scare them away which makes her cling tighter. It’s a vicious cycle and she recognizes it (which is why she’s trying hard to give Clara her space) but she can’t help being over involved.














