#almost2020

[popegregory72]

True story. #babyyodadontlie #almost2020 #idonthave2020vision https://www.instagram.com/p/B6xBLzkh1m4OJ3_QW0DD6RDNDyeJJF8bZrFuPI0/?igshid=n11xgk1y55up

[geekymj]

So what are your New Years resolutions? #almost2020 #happysunday #positivevibes #lifeisbeautiful #relaxing #positive https://www.instagram.com/p/B6q1nQXBgsy/?igshid=1yf6t6nhtup9

[jaimepaige-blog]

#hellodecember #best #last #almost2020 #makethebestofit #followforfollow #likeforlike (at Ossipee, New Hampshire) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6jpCIunGbn/?igshid=19b35f0nrhr2u

[mattantinucci]

Merry Christmas, ya filthy Floridian animal 🌴💁‍♀️#MizPattySaysWhat #Almost2020 #AllShade (at Fort Myers, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6hPbXpBv5Bzse8FTMWGUJNMatunM_auw5xg580/?igshid=1eq8byhnopwvr

[xxjessabugxx]

Welcome December #december #newmonth #almost2020 https://www.instagram.com/p/B5h-MRthSjn/?igshid=vso8t7chpawz

[extraordinarylegend]

We live life embracing the many shades of grey. Somewhere between the black and white, we find ourselves somewhere between dark and the light that is emblematic of human life. Our lives are checkered with black and white, some amount of good and evil. How would we know about the light if we didn’t come from the dark. We move forward through the yin and yang of life, learning from our experiences and applying these lessons in an effort to to be better humans. #BeBetterHumans #goodandevil #newmoneyhabits #almost2020 #lifeisgood #selfmade #withalittlehelpfrommyfriends #SolomonsTemple #YinAndYang #checkeredrug (at Phoenix, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4iA9xuhWVv/?igshid=1kt9ov0qifmp1

[theirbuninmyoven]

Recap

Late 2017/early 2018 - I was looking for a match. It was between two IFs that were in Windsor, CT (they were at the very early stages, I also didn't feel comfortable [at the time] to carry for an HIV+ couple) and a heterosexual couple from NJ. I matched with the NJ couple.

From there until early 2019, we tried a few different cycles. My lining wasn't getting thicker, except for one time where we did a DET which was a fail. The IM had a partial hysterectomy. They put her on BC during one cycle and screwed up her FSH. It was a long time before her levels became normal again. We left that clinic because of many things:

1. They kept wanting to drop me. Turns out this clinic did a one size fits all. Rumor has it they were really trying to solicit me with another couple.

2. They scammed their insurance. Their insurance caught it.

3. They were rude AF ALWAYS!!

In spring 2019, we moved to another clinic. They caught A LOT of mistakes from the previous clinic, protocols and more insurance fraud. Right now, they're working on her, because they made the same BC mistake. After the additional testing, this clinic asked me to do, the result landed me in the ER and my periods stopped. Now they want to put me on medication to try to induce my period.

I knew surrogacy was a process but I wasn't guesstimating this long.