Jul 1, 2025
ok so i actually hate talking about bi/panphobia in a public setting because there is more nuance than solely identity erasure. for example, bi/pan people are at an elevated risk of SA, fetishization, self-harm and substance abuse. the rates are even higher for poc and trans folks. on the other hand, being in a passing relationship whereas my gay and lesbian friends face hate crimes means that i indeed have privilege. so it’s all very complex. it’s why i don’t want to take up space and talk about it
but jfc i see some of the most insane parasocial takes. like what did i just read???
#i had to link ksmogirl’s ask because HOLY SHIT#also bc relevant#there was this simblr hate blog that appeared in my for you and they had an ask that was about a mutal’s story#and the ask went on a tangent about how the protagonist is bisexual but with a dude#and op just went ‘okay…and?’ 💀#sorry i just woke up and yapped to oblivion agajn#again*#tw: sa mention#tw: sa#elderwisp speaks