I feel like the Humans Are Space Orcs genre tends to heavily over-anthropomorphize aliens. I know it's good for an interesting story or structure, to point out how humans could be weird in ways we don't typically imagine, but also it tends to be from a very humanized lens. I think if we do ever really find aliens and they're intelligent, in their own way, past our human-centric idea of what it is to be 'smart', I think it'd be highly unlikely that they'd be hyper-social communicative beings. They'd probably be more like octopuses or elephants, to a bit of a higher degree I think.
Maybe they would happen to be communicable on a scale similar to humans though, and we could have some kind of interspecies (or inter-biota) relationship. Even then though, in the genre, with many posts I've noticed people giving aliens 'alien' sounding names, being kind of unique or thought-out gibberish. -that, though strange, could be pronounced by humans, and even latinized in writing. But I think for real aliens it'd be quite likely that we wouldn't be able to pronounce any of the sounds (or methods) they use to communicate just with our own bodies. Not just as a quirky alien race that's known among the other ones for being like that, but almost all of them in majority.
I personally like the idea of electromagnetic waves, in antennae maybe. We'd have to use a device to record an example of the alien saying each word (or parcel of information) in their language, and then map the frequencies and amplitudes and such on a graph or into sound so we have a sensory organ that can interpret them, and then translate them to a human language after that. And then whenever we want to speak to them, having to type what we wanna say into some sort of device and have it convert that to the appropriate electromagnetic waves for them to receive.
Or maybe it's just something like a sign language, or body language that we don't have the appendages for.
But I think if we ever do meet real aliens, they wouldn't have self-given names like Vorahcnog or anything. Though I do think it's likely that if the individuals are distinguishable enough to be externally identifiable or recognizable (though let's be honest, a lot of humans still have that problem with other humans), then humans will just give them human names, like Steve. Completely untranslatable to the alien language, but just for human use.
Maybe if they all look identical to humans they'd put little uniquely colored stickers on each one- if the crew was small enough :) (with permission of course). That's totally something humans would do I think. Or maybe serial numbers or name tags, but that's less fun, and boring.
In this specific example the image I have in my head is like 6ft tall bipedal ant lookin things. Though, even that's probably too anthropomorphized- and even terra-pomorphized.
What was my point? Oh yeah- I really like alien stories, and alternate perspective fun ideas, and I get that making aliens human-like, or I guess highly human compatible in terms of communication is really convenient, especially when telling a story through communication. However, I do think it's way more unrealistic than many people realize. But maybe that's not the point and it's just fun stories for alternate perspective. Just my fuel for thought. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯