Been dealing with this for a while in the Hetalia fandom but any advice to help me deal with anxiety interacting with ask blogs? i remembered trying to interact with one with something v silly and wholesome and i thought mun of that blog who was cool with me and then got promptly blocked because i think someone saw me and said "anon sux they did this"
There's a lot of drama around fandoms these days. If someone told Mun, for example, "hey, this anon sucks because they ship this ship" and then Mun blocked you, I don't think they're worth following, to be honest. And if someone told Mun, for example, "hey, this anon sucks because they did (insert ridiculously horrible thing here)" and Mun believed them without proof? Also not worth following.
All in all, it's worth trying to get used to being blocked, even for the pettiest reasons. I struggle with it myself, and I'm always left with a lot of questions as to why I've been blocked, but in the end I have to conclude that this person just doesn't want to be friends with me or see my stuff on their dash. That's fine.
I'm very anxious myself. With BPD on top of it, I get extremely anxious if I'm in a bad spot. But when I'm in a good spot, all I can do is do the things I need/want to do anyway, and then just feel the feelings as they come and let it pass. Cry if I have to. The more practice I get with dealing with my anxiety, the easier it gets in the long run.
If you're worried about blogs blocking you for what you ship, I'd recommend browsing their blog for any stance they might have on shipping. You can also browse their blog to see how they interact with anons. Are they rude? Are they kind? Some people are tempted to be rude towards anons because they don't see anons as real people, just an anonymous face.
If they're kind towards anons, and you're still anxious about interacting with askblogs, I'd ask questions anonymously. If they're nice and your question isn't incredibly offensive, the worst they can do is not answer it.