#ambuguity

[bauhujan]

Hari ini aku mengerti sesuatu. Siksaan terberat dari Anxious Attachment bukanlah penolakan. Siksaan terberat adalah ambiguitas. Sistem saraf yang "hiper-waspada" bisa menangani "Ya" atau "Tidak." Ia bisa berduka atas "Tidak" dan merayakannya "Ya." Tapi ia tidak bisa menangani "Mungkin." Ia tidak bisa hidup di "wilayah abu-abu." Ketidakpastian adalah bahan bakar obsesi. Itu adalah siksaan. Sampai pada titik di mana kamu mulai berdoa memohon ending yang menyakitkan—apa pun itu—hanya agar "wilayah abu-abu" ini berakhir. Kamu mulai sadar bahwa kamu tidak menginginkan mereka. Kamu hanya menginginkan sebuah akhir.

[psychologistmimi]

Mixed messages in a time of uncertainty

Mixed messages in a time of uncertainty

Many people are black or white thinkers. They don’t like gray. They don’t do nuance. Others live completely in the gray zone. I, for one, live in the gray. More often than not, I’m comfortable living in the gray. I think such a framework has helped me move forward in life as I often didn’t get stuck in ambuguity.

Fast forward, however, to the year 2020. The year that we either wished we could…

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[notspamm]

Honest reaction to the Star Wars trailer

First time: okay Second time: yeah

[reasoningwithdana-blog-blog]

NOTE: The bathroom in my apartment is very small.

Me: We should keep the toothbrushes farther from the toilet anyway.

Him: Why?

Me: I've read very scary things can be deposited depending on where you keep them.

Him: Where you keep the toilet?

Me: (unamused look)

Him: Aww, what now? What's that? An unclear antecedent?