#ameliaflux

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oh and btw ameliaflux (bc yeh)

The love of my life tbh. I miss talking to you so much

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:) but in reality it's more like ;/ bc i suck at winking

YOURE SO CUTE EFFY BYE. Okay I ship you with Norman Reedus because I feel like yall would be that hot couple who makes out all the time and im here for it

Compliment: you are the love of my life really and I can't wait for you to be famous so I can tour with you and be a groupie

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ameliaflux replied to your post: “ameliaflux replied to your post: “Can you give me some examples of...”:

oh okay i thought you did. yeah, i feel you. i pulled an eleven hour shift. you?

I worked two jobs back to back so I'm losing my mind rn

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themoormaiden replied to your post “The problem is that I have no one. The normal tricks of trying to meet...”

Meeting people can be really hard. Are there any nearby groups you can join? For example, if you enjoy writing I'd be surprised if there's a writing group somewhere near you and groups like that can be a great way to meet people. :)

1. My work schedule is unpredictable so committing to something on a regular basis is a challenge. Especially considering most such groups meet on weekday nights.

2. I've had a few vague encounters with the local writing community and most of them have the egos-the-size-of-continents problem. I'm actively trying to avoid people like that.

ameliaflux replied to your post “ameliaflux replied to your post “ameliaflux replied to your post “The...”

i think you're great. having trouble making friends has nothing to do with who you are. it's only an error on account of your approach. approach does not reflect how great you are as an individual bc tactfulness is something that can be learned.

I never said anything about my approach, hun. The problem is I don't know anyone I want to be friends with in the first place and I don't have any clear ways of meeting decent people.

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ameliaflux replied to your post “ameliaflux replied to your post “The problem is that I have no one....”

yeah, i completely understand. just don't let it bring you down. you're too great to have that ride on you.

If I actually was, would I be in this situation? I don't think so.

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ameliaflux replied to your post “The problem is that I have no one. The normal tricks of trying to meet...”

i know simple suggestions aren't really helpful and maybe i simply don't understand but i think it's ideal that you know that loneliness can be remedied even when it's truly difficult unless you're like me who actively seeks out that suffering.

Yeah. I know there's a way to end this. I just don't know what that is yet. As soon as I find something, I will do it -- I'm practical and I'm not into unnecessary pain. I just need to... y'know, find something.

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ameliaflux replied to your post “The problem is that I have no one. The normal tricks of trying to meet...”

have you tried making friends with older people? i find it easier to converse with them rather than people my own age sometimes bc usually they have a particular intelligence that meets my standard. maybe you need to surround yourself with that.

If you mean older by a few years, most of the people I know are. And it's not intelligence that's the problem.

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@ameliaflux replied to your post “I am so sick of seeing the victim complex this website encourages in...”

Feminism isn't about promoting a victim complex. It's about liberation from the patriarchy. And though I'm even a bit irritated with how crazy some people get on here, I think that there is a lot of truth in the political issues mentioned.

Everything I've seen attached to feminism on this website is about women being victims to actions by men. Rather than promoting that women can protect themselves, or are capable of being successful of their own volition, it is all about how the nonexistent patriarchy is keeping them down. Which is ridiculous. There is no patriarchy.

I'm assuming that you live in the United States, and if that is the case we live in a country where you have every right as a man to make your way in this world. Saying that women are being held back because of their sex is a cop out.

If you are interested THIS post does a really good job of clearing up the lies of the current feminist movement.