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A doodle page commission for @ammycharizard17 !

#such yummy colors #Commissions #ebonytailsart #linus fireburdt #ammycharizard17 #doodle pages

We need a Ridonculous Race team that has one contestant who is book smart but not street smart, and one who is the opposite

#hehe :) and they'll be friends :)#total drama #total drama ridonculous race #ammycharizard17

Completed color commission for @ammycharizard17 of their OC, Linus! Fire motifs are always a lot of fun to work with! Thanks a bunch for commissioning me!

#lynx art #commission #OC #ammycharizard17

I’ve been struggling a bit with moving on from something I did a year ago. I acknowledge it wasn’t as big of a deal as I made it out to be, but whenever I remember it, I always feel the same shame and guilt I felt back then. Do you have any advice on what I could do to stop it from hurting so much?

No, I cannot tell you how to just make it stop hurting. I am not a fan of trying to repress or control emotions cause in my experience that only makes things worse. Working through hard emotions is kinda like how you have to sit down and disinfect a wound and stitch it up before slapping a band aid on it if you want it to actually heal. If you just cover it up and forget about it it’ll get infected and it won’t heal properly and it’s the same kind of deal with emotions.

So instead I recommend that you allow it to hurt. That you let your brain work through this and feel the emotions it needs to process and that you keep reminding yourself that it is okay that this is hard and that it’s okay that you’re still hurting. Hurting is a part of healing and often you cannot heal unless you allow yourself to hurt first. It sucks that this is how it is, but punishing yourself for hurting won’t make your emotional wounds heal any faster.

That being said, there are things you can do to speed up the process. It can help to see a therapist and talk the whole thing and all the emotions associated with it through and then get their help in figuring out how to cope with it. Talking it through with close friends can also help, and so can writing it all down. But all of these options are about confronting the hurt and allowing it to be there! Simply making the hurt go away without putting in the work needed to process what happened isn’t a very realistic solution, unfortunately.

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