y'know what. I'm tired of this very bad (lovely but overused idea) that all asexuals are this cute, bubbly, sweet little babies that don't know what sex even is or people that are traumatized.
(I'm in no way, shape, or form saying that any of the above types/reasons to be ace is invalid, you are absolutely valid and no one has the right to judge you. I'm just very tired of only seeing these "tropes" in fics and wish to tell people that Asexuality is a spectrum, not black and white, just like gender and preferences)
Fuck no.
I need representations, people.
Give me a person who uses their beauty as their greatest weapon. Hypnotizing people with their good looks and charms and flirty nature but never going further, because they are repulsed by the idea of sexual intimacy or a night of fun.
Give me a person who loves the idea of sexual intimacy but not for the act in itself, but for the closeness you get with your loved one through it.
Give me a person who looks bubbly, cute, and kind, who writes the most filthiest of smut scenes with utmost detail but has never done the act themselves.
Give me a person who's never done the deal but does not care about it, and thinks of it like something that can be done but what is the need?
A person who does engage in sexual activities but just because it's meh. It's fun but I really don't see what's so crucial about it.
A person who's absolutely repulsed by the mere thought of it because ew, that's fucking nasty. Why would you want anyone's spit in your mouth? You'll get diseases you fucking idiot.
A person who's willing to do sex just because they want to help their partner with their needs, and not because they feel the need to do it.
Two people, an ace and a sex-driven person in a relationship because what, dude. Love isn't all about fucking on every surface you get tehir hands on.
A love that's sated just by cuddles, movies, kisses, and physical closeness, no need for anything more.
An old love story of a couple who adopted two kids/puppies/kittens etc and never ever engaged sexually but are so full in love with each other.
A person who loves to be skin-to-skin with their partner but not anything more.
A person who cannot even bring themselves to even kiss someone romantically.
A person who doesn't care about sex and whether or not it's something to be done in a relationship.
A person who loves to read smut but hates the thought of actually engaging in it
