hi hello can we please finally start applying attraction =/= action to aromantic people. i see a lot of stuff about how “ace people can still have sex and enjoy it” (which is true) but nothing that’s like, hey, aro people can do the same thing! i am 100% completely aromantic, but i still have a romantic partner. i enjoy dating the same way a sex positive ace person might enjoy sex, cause it’s just fun for me and that’s okay. it doesn’t make me a bad aro or mean i’m doing my partner a disservice by not being attracted to them