The crazy escherscape of gender, sexuality, privilege, and dating habits going on in my current social circle are 🙃 because my partner’s ex and current good friend (also a neighbor and business partner!!!!!!!) who has made passes at both ME AND MY PARTNER without EITHER of our permission since I started dating my partner has been bein’ a little sexist shit at me for months, but he’s also terrible to his WIFE, but ALSO fuck queer men/mascs who don’t work on their misogyny or sense of boundaries, WHY have I come into contact with SO many people who assume they have permission to comment on/attempt to enter my sexual/romantic life, I REALLY don’t want to suspect the sexism as retaliation for my “hey, please stop hitting on us!!!!!!! it makes me really uncomfortable!!!!!!!!!!” but come to think of it I don’t think the two problems ever overlapped so 🙃