sylphaeon replied to your post: okay but really nobody answered m...
a bit of both, but certainly more feeling than choice. if that makes any sense. heh.
anguys replied to your post: okay but really nobody answered my question...
feeling i would say although it could probably be psychologically contorted into a choice
a-radias replied to your post: okay but really nobody answered my question...
+1 to other replies. wrt contortion i think depending on your capacity for empathy n mb how much compassion is tied into your sense/manifestation of love u can choose to t ry to love someone and then succeed but yeah success is the feeling not choice
whereimgoingtheresnoone replied to your post: okay but really nobody answered my question...
i think feeling at a basic level, even if u can’t identify it, but from then on it would be dictated by choice like in terms of how you deal it or w/e
persephonesyndrome replied to your post: okay but really nobody answered my question...
choice, definitely. i mean you can’t choose who meets the standards (for lack of a better word) for love and feeling is definitely involved, but i think of it as similar to trust, or as trust on a really high level
oh wow you guys these are all really interesting to see how everyone defines love and dang im just going to sort of compile these here and save for future ref because i.....find this sort of stuff interesting and my parents were very curious about why i thought what i thought and i couldnt put it into words but i think its really cool that some of you guys are slightly different and just yeah!!!