honestly the anti stuff is really stressing me out and makes me feel super on edge ahhhhh any advice? :((
Well, my best advice to you and anyone who has been upset with these people is to block them all. For real-- there’s no point on fighting people that believe themselves to be right and who will not put on an effort to think before speaking/writing or having a conversation with other people with different points of views.
So, if you don’t want to see them on your tags and dash, the best you can do is to block them and move on.
Don’t give them the time of the day. Attention is what they seek, and the best way to get rid of them is to simply ignore. Why? Because once they realize nobody is putting attention, they will eventually leave it alone or even leave, since it’s not giving them the validation they seek.
You are doing nothing wrong. You are not shoving your shipping down their throats, nor the boys’ or anyone else-- as long as you stick to your tags and have fun with the fandom in its spaces, you are okay and they are the ones inviding us, and that’s why:
Block. Mute. Unfollow. Blacklist.
Those are your options and it’s time to make good use of them, since they refuse to do it themselves.
You curate your own spaces. Do it.