can i just say you genuinely seem like a really well adjusted person? like you answer asks from radqueers who are like “hi im radqueer but fuck child predators” with “yeah, fuck child predators”
you found a really fucked up community and you didn’t jump to “wow everyone here must be a horrible person” and instead went “this community is made by and for xenosatinists but there are still good people in it who don’t abuse animals”
you bring a level of nuance to this kind of thing that i don’t see often
why thank you : )
I've talked to a lot of radqueers, I used to be super hateful and view every radqueer as this bad pro-c but like once you actually talk to them and have a conversation about why they are a radqueer and why they ID with those things it really changed my perspective on things,
I've also grown a lot throughout my time running this account, It started as a bait account meant to make fun of radqueers, then it became my hater of radqueers account and now I'm just in a spot where I'm pretty neutral,
Radqueer as a political stance is not awful, It has a couple of issues but those could be grown on, It was just made by someone who had bad predatory beliefs and that's kind of stayed in the community for the years that it's been active, But that obviously doesn't mean it's everyone
and I think a lot of people forget that there's a large amount of children in the radqueer community, A lot of anti radqueers need to remember yes bad predatory behavior is taught, You need to teach someone to think that is okay, But that doesn't mean that it can't be unlearned, There have been a many of instances where radqueers have gone back and said they no longer believe things they did previously.
That was a large rant but I've had a lot of growth to get to this mindset.
