Hii! Could you do a reading of Antons from riize red and green flags in a relationship? Thank you so much ! 💗💗
Hi anon, ty for your request :)
Anton's Green and Red flags in a relationship 🔮
What would his green and red flags be in a relationship? A tarot reading
Disclaimer: Everything said is alleged and for entertainment purposes only. Idk this man irl so take everything with a grain of salt and use your own discernment <3
Before we get into it, I just want to mention that I asked for 5 cards to showcase his "green flags" and 5 for his "red flags", but if I'm being honest here, his red flags were kinda bleeding into his green flags. And no, this doesn't mean he's a bad person or he'd be a bad bf, I just think he might have some unrealistic standards when it comes to love. And I think that actually stems from him being a big romantic - it's a double edged sword. Because yes, it suggests that he's an affectionate and doting partner. But it feels like he's also in love with the idea of love itself - or an "ideal" version of love that he might have in his head - and that's not always a good thing bc it might be unattainable.
Regardless, the clarifying cards I pulled still indicate his willingness to put some effort into his relationships but I do think he gets overwhelmed by so many things in his life so it might be difficult for him to actually find a balance between managing a relationship along with everything else happening in his personal life.
Green Flags
Knight of Cups, AoP rx, 2oP rx (clarified by 8oP), The Lovers rx (clarified by 3oP), 8oW rx (bottom of deck for both spreads: 2oC)
Anton's genuinely a lover boy lol. He's charming and might be a bit of a sweet talker, so he'll definitely be the type of bf to make his s/o's heart flutter. Might do lots of romantic gestures to make his s/o feel loved and appreciated (taking them out on dates, using words of affection etc.).
Like I saw in my other reading, Anton also seems to be the type to really take things slow when he's in a relationship. He takes his time getting to know his s/o because he truly wants to build a solid connection with them, and wants to make sure that whatever they're building stems from a strong foundation so that the relationship won't crumble easily. He'd be really patient and nurturing, and would be interested in getting to know his partner as a person - their likes and dislikes, their little quirks etc. Whatever connection he builds, he just wants to make sure it's not superficial.
Red flags
3oC (clarified by The Fool) , 9oP, 7oC rx, Knight of Pentacles, 9oC rx
Now the thing is, although Anton taking his time to build slow connections is mostly a green flag, it can sometimes manifest into stagnancy, or him being a bit too slow to make important choices and decisions that will shape the relationship. This could potentially send mix signals to his s/o and make them a bit confused about his intentions. It could also make the relationship feel a bit boring (for lack of a better word) if the person he's with wants to move at a faster pace than he does.
I also mentioned earlier that Anton has unrealistic standards in love. But I also think he has unrealistic standards for himself. He might struggle to feel truly satisfied with where he is in life, which could lead to him fixating on his happiness, individual success and how he's being perceived others. This might ofc bleed into his relationship, and aside from initiating romantic gestures, he might not be as present or invested as his s/o wants him to be bc he's so focused on himself and his own problems.
3oC was a bit tricky to interpret, but I viewed it in the sense that Anton's s/o might feel like he's more interested in communicating with other people than he is with them? Like his s/o might feel like he's prioritising his friendships over his romantic relationship, or that he relies more on his friends than he does them.
