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i didn't even realize watsonian and doylist are just a character and the author from sherlock holmes but that makes it a lot easier to remember.

#looking at the info on them i feel like a lot of people (including me) could benefit from understanding these #anyway... yeah.#post

I have trouble figuring out what I want. This isn't new, I'd been thinking of getting a tattoo since I was twelve and only did it when I was 21. I still don't feel the obvious "want" people seem to experience even with respect to transitioning, yet that desire hasn't moved since I came out as trans 8 years ago

So, yesterday, just because the time where I can start trying is kinda getting there fast, I decided to take a "Am I ready to have a baby" quiz, and I have to admit I was quite miffed that if you answer questions about your life with "I like my life right now" the test immediately goes to "you're not ready"

Idk, am I missing something about wanting children? I was fine with my arm without tattoo, that doesn't mean I regret mine. I don't understand why a person enjoying their life without children is apparently a sign they shouldn't have any... Are we meant to be miserable adults until we procreate?

Absolutely baffling reasoning.

#Anyway... yeah.#still reflecting on that subject #other sticky point: people keep asking me what my criteria for a donor would be an I'm like... I largely don't care?#I'm gonna be alone with that baby #if the donor is healthy it doesn't matter to me what my child looks like #idk maybe I'll find out something different if/when I reach that part of the process but like. I'm fine with a Khmer donor #I'm fine with a white or black or east asian donor #.... although i guess if the child comes out looking too different there's a risk people might think I'm not the parent #would that bother me? mmh #not sure #i mean maybe in the long run but i figure smart people will figure it out through our interactions #and people in the streets don't count #anyway #my family is mixed #my sister is quite pasty but all our cousins are biracial with black fathers so it's not like a non white child would be the only poc #in our family #which would be my only jard line #if we were all pasty white I'd specifically look for white donors #... although i suppose of we're going in that direction it would pay to look at white/black/biracial donors so that the kid can have #more of the family look #instead of being the only part asian child #reflexion to continue #Sparkle life #Interwebs stuff

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Edmund’s just gonna drape himself across his best friend’s lap now. Ignoring anything that the other demigod may have been doing. It’s ‘give me attention’ time... It’s really not that different than when a cat does it, actually. “Polluuuuux...”