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Hey umm is feeling an attraction well not exectly an attraction that isnt really romantic but not exectly friendshipy to your friends an allo romantic thing to do?

Moots i need help

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#questioning #arospec?#idk shit #maybe i'm not really feeling that #arospec

actual help wanted here…

so what is it supposed to feel like when you kiss someone? like i’ve read books and everything obviously but what is it actually like?

when i kiss my paramour I never feel anything in the moment. it’s only afterward that i get giddy, and only because that is considered a romantic gesture by society and i feel loved by them that they want to kiss me.

but in the moment i feel nothing. is this a normal thing or is it my sexuality crisi again because i thought i finally thought that bambi omnisexual demisexual was right but fuck.

#the jaybird chirps 💙#advice please #/nf ofc but pleadepleaseplease #im having another crisis why does this keep happeningggg #acespec?#arospec?#bambi omnisexual

guys

i think

its a possibility bc i genuinely have trouble differentiating platonic love and romantic love (happens more often with irl ppl tho)

@octever tagging u bc i need help from an aro person and u i think are the only person i follow thats just aromantic and not aroace

#nebularomantic #arospec?

guys having a partner is so weird it’s so odd i don’t know what’s happening

#arospec?#arospec #alloaro #aromantic #aromantism #romance #romance????? i don’t know #lus liath

yangchen is aroace, please remember that for your fics

Hello 👋🏼

Oh I am very much aware of that. Fc yee didn’t have romance in mind for the book, from how I interpreted the interview, so her sexuality is sort of open for interpretation. At least that’s how I’m going with it because this is fan fiction….

I have a bookmark folder on my computer just for this so that I have something to draw from when I get to that part of my writing. I plan for her to be on the aroace spectrum though, there’s no need to worry

#chuffed panda talks #I saw a TikTok from an ace person who explained how attraction worked for them and I’m using that for my ground base #i forget to close the tabs on this topic on my computer #yangchen #acespec?#arospec?#can those terms be used as well?#she always struck me as acespec because… y’know…. nun and all that #that’s after learning the term and looking at her from an older viewpoint #ask box #asks

Is it like lazy/bad that I want a life partner but like I want to be Old Couple married? Because I just can’t stand the idea of big romantic gestures or like dramatics or whatever. I don’t like austentatious declarations. I don’t like social events or super fancy restaurants or whatever. But idk its probably perpetuated by society but I feel like there’s an expectation that young love has to be big and adventurous and expressive. Sure, it can be.

But I want to take things slow. One day, long in the future, I want a life partner (in crime, lol) and not to be sappy but I want domestic. I want to know that they’re around every day, doing their thing, being happy and safe, and that at the end of the day we can go home, make dinner, and relax together. I want to see their work and support them wholeheartedly, watching as passion lights their eyes. I want them to see my work, listen to my incoherent ramblings, and somehow understand everything I mean. I want to be able to talk about things I never talk about to anyone. I want to surprise them when they come home to see that I’ve made something for them, whether it’s music or art or writing. I want to learn things together. I want to grow together. I want to make jokes with them that no one else will understand and drink tea together in the early morning. I want to watch them read or do yard work just content to know that they’re in my life. I want to go out and do mundane things like grocery shopping and laundry with them. I want to love someone with my entire spirit, and I want to love them for their entire spirit.

And honestly? I don’t care if this person is like a QPP or a romantic significant other. And I’m confused. Because idk if it’s my lack of romantic experience that makes me want to take things slow, or if I only think it’s “weird” because of insecurity pushed by society, or if I’m like arospec or something because I can’t stand most love languages. (My platonic/romantic love language is quality time and gift giving (usually by me making something for someone) but I hate physical touch and am...tentative about words of affection). maybe it’s just my reserved personality.

I just don’t know.