#ask a bisexual

[hellomynameisbisexual]

Ok so this is a very stupid question maybe. I’m a girl and I’m bi and I’m in love with a guy. Bear with me this is stupid but I frequently obsess over tv shows and to be more precise obsess over wlw ship in them. I don’t obsess over f/m ship in the same way. And I feel guilty for it. I sometimes think it’s because I never got to experience a relationship with another woman but this makes me feel guilty as well. I’m in love I know that for sure but I still have these other feelings I feel guilty about I don’t know what to do with them.

No need to feel guilty if you say you are bi you don't have to prove how bi you are or what percentage of bi you are any percentage of being bisexual is valid regardless of the fact you love/like to ship wlw tv characters you have no need to feel guilty just cuz u never experienced what it is like to be in a relationship with a women u are still valid in your bisexuality if over time u keep feeling guilty knowing u don't need to feel guilty then search within yourself like deeply search within ur soul to see what would help u feel happy for you by you and with you and makes u not feel guilty any more I hope what I have said made sense and helped you in some way shape or form 

[bidotorg]

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I always appreciate it when an unsure person asks me the appropriate way to broach the subject in a respectful manner.

[hellomynameisbisexual]

do you ever get the classic 'bisexual struggle' of thinking 'am i straight? am i gay?'

Tbh I did once years ago for about 5 seconds

[hellomynameisbisexual]

this blog really helps me with my internalized biphobia, especially the articles. thank you.

Aww thanks and you’re welcome 😊

[hellomynameisbisexual]

Hello! I wanted to ask a quick question as a bi woman who was questioning for a while before feeling more comfortable with my identity.

I’m out to my closest friends and my immediate family, and had some mixed experiences with that and hoping they wouldn’t see me differently but wanted to be able to express thinking certain people were cute around them and make jokes and have them understand me better. I’ll be going off to college soon and was wondering how to come out to people and feel like yourself around them without feeling forced to reveal such personal knowledge? Feel free not to answer if you don’t want to and I hope you’re doing well!

I think over all you will know when it’s the right time to tell people and be open to people about that side of you I think it’s more about feeling like u can truly be ur self around people then it is feeling like your lying to them or hiding a part of ur self from people you are the best judgement of your own character so if you feel comfortable and feel like your in a safe place or safe space with people and you feel ready to tell them if you choose to do so then go for it you have my support and if you tell them and you have another mixed experience then fuck them no pun intended I have coming to learning that being yourself means being okay with you who are loving your self regardless of how other handle it I hope all of what I have said made sense I hope your doin great in college and if u ever need to talk my dm’s are always open for a more in depth conversation if need be

[hellomynameisbisexual]

Hello fellow Bi, just wanted to say I love your username/URL. ♥ It's really cute.

Aw thanks 😊

[hellomynameisbisexual]

When I was a kid I used to fantasize on women alot and I thought it was normal, and now I still not sure if in really heteroflexible or bi, pan, poly etc. What should I do

I’m not sure tbh I think the best thing for you to do is to go out there and try things get a feel for what u think is right for you cuz at the end of the day you know what feels right to you and you know what vibes well with you so just explore be happy and enjoy finding out more about who u are none of this will make u less of a person and there might be times u feel like ur unsure of what ur doin and u might even doubt yourself but just know only you can truly know what is right for you not anyone else only you can make you truly happy inside and out I hope all of this made this

[hellomynameisbisexual]

hi! so i identify as a straight female right now, but i believe i'm sexually attracted to females. however, i don't think i'm romantically attracted to women- i've never had an irl crush on one and if i think about having a girlfriend it's not really an appealing thought. does sexual attraction mean anything in this case?

I’m just going to be as honest as possible I’m not sure all I know know is you can be romantically attracted to someone with out being sexually attracted to them sorry I could be anymore help too you I hope this helped in someway