#ask cerí

[cericertain]

hi srry to bother u. im AMAB. a decade before i realized i was a trans woman & started transitioning, i took risperidone for a long time and it made me grow DD-cup breasts. i also once took a karyotype and they said i was XY. am i considered intersex? your post seems to imply that most ppl with gynecomastia are intersex. am i the exception?

Intersexuality is naturally occuring, this is locai.

[cericertain]

I hope all the people sending you intersexist hate asks step on LEGOs with their bare feet every single day for the rest of their lives.

Thank you for fighting the good fight, and may you only receive blessings forever! 💛💜💛

thank you person who later become my moot on my new / now old blog! (small world, eh?)

[cericertain]

Wait im sorry im actually really confused, i saw your ‘intersex is trending, heres some reminders’ post— how is futa a slur? I knew it to be like… a japanese word that describes a character with ‘mixed parts’ essentially. I cant remember the full origins of the word creation but i thought it was on the same lines as fujoshi/fudanshi?

Is it because it’s since been used to describe *real* intersex people, or am i mistaken and it’s always been something coined to refer to altersex characters in an ‘im calling this character intersex because of their mixed parts’ way?

Im sorry if this makes no sense, but i do want to understand so that i can stop using the word to refer to fictional characters if i need to (to be clear, i would never call a real person a futa regardless due to the fetishistic nature of the word, but thats also a whole different issue than what im asking here (i think?))

Hi!

It's origins is for intersex people with atypical genitalia, and is now being used to describe hentai of characters "with mixed parts", which is an intersexist fetishistic myth about this group. It originated in a context that was derogatory, and now is being used for bigenital porn, which does still have it's real life affects on intersex people.

You know how many intersex people of all ages are sexually assaulted or harasses because they're an "irl f___" (i'm not saying it because i'm not EA)? It's the same as people using "herm" to be their porn term for characters with "both parts", still a slur, still fetishizing the community, and still harms us.

And, no, fujoshi/fudashani is for people who like yaoi. pretty sure fujoshi was originally an insult/something of that realm but it has nothing to do with the Fu slur, and also simply has a different history.

Anyways, it's because a bit of both. Real intersex people have been affected by this regardless. (and even if it was coined in an intersexist way, I would still hate it. Me personally.. intersexism is intersexism)

I'm maintagging this so anon can find it again, and also so people can add on.

TLDR: yes this is a bad word. Just say bigenital, unless you simply mean "tits and penis", which i'm sure you can find porn for anyways.

[cericertain]

I think your habit of reblogging a post you really like three or four times is very cute and charming.

Thank you! I love tumblrs feature to multiple time reblog! I like to especially do it whenever art comes up, but in general I just like to show whoever posted a good post my appreciation!^^

[cericertain]

Imagine thinking people hate you because you're intersex or transmisic, but it's actually just a raging asshole to literally everyone for no apparent reason. Chill, just because what you're saying is right doesn't make you any less of an ass for screaming at people who were agreeing with you.

A.) transmisic means transphobic

B.) I know people don't like me for that on the account of being harassed every time I mention it.

C.) whatever you got your feelings hurt on must be a while ago because I've done nothing but reblog for a while now..

[cericertain]

Why are you red on Shinigami Eyes 😭

Because the runner of Shinigami eyes is a person. And people carry biases. Look at some of the dev statements. One literally says that saying "binary trans woman" is bad.

[cericertain]

hi so i saw your post saying bae-ll is a slur no matter context, but when talking about the early/mid 2010's transphobic group who named themselves that, what are we supposed to call them? that was their name that they chose *because* of its meaning. /gen

I think I already answered this, but if not!

I am unsure. It sucks when edgy assholes name themselves after slurs, i think they're distinct enough there should be some word but idk. I call 'em Bæds in my head, but genuinely I am not the person to ask this, nor the person fronting to answer this. Sorry.

[cericertain]

I'm a child, sorry for the inconvenience...

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