#actually intersex

[eyesoftheavatar]

I dont even have the energy to say anything other than I dont want to be disabled, intersex, and homeless when we go back to america. Here's a link to donate. It explains some things as well.

[is-this-intersexism]

perisex person told me to my face they're jealous of their younger sister who has pmos because they feel she shouldn't "deserve" to be "biologically nonbinary" bcus she is cis

this is intersexism and probably exosexism?

Idk what it’s called

Exorsexism* @thisisexorsexism

[ambiguousgenitalia-culture-is]

Ambiguous genitalia culture is being confused with no clear answers regarding genital changes on GAHT. Every guide says X will happen within this timeframe, but it hasn't. People keep saying that Y happens, but I'm experiencing Z. I can't find anyone else talking about Z. Now what?

ambiguous genitalia culture is...

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sorry about the huge delay.

[myirlnameiscloud]

Give your character mastectomy scars and a vaginoplasty.

Put your character on estrogen and give them a phalloplasty.

Give your character a vaginectomy and a penectomy.

Put your character on testosterone and give them laser hair removal.

Show how transition can look for intersex and/or trans people with atypical transitions using your characters.

[interyuurei]

How unfortunate that I do not have a sweet girl to give cheek nuzzles and love bites to while we snuggle after eating lunch together this afternoon.

[intersexpolls]

Is clitorophallus intersex-exclusive?

Clitorophallus is a term for a sex organ that is intermediate between clitoris and penis. It's been used in the medical literature to describe intersex genitals for decades.

Is clitorophallus an intersex-exclusive term?

I'm intersex, have a clitorophallus, and it is intersex-exclusive

I'm intersex, have a clitorophallus, and it's not intersex-exclusive

I'm intersex, have a clitorophallus, and neutral on the matter

I'm intersex, don't have a clitorophallus, and it is intersex-exclusive

I'm intersex, don't have a clitorophallus, and it is not intersex-exclusive

I'm intersex, don't have a clitorophallus, and neutral on the matter

I'm intersex, see results / other opinion shared in replies/reblogs

I'm perisex/questioning, born in winter

I'm perisex/questioning, born in spring

I'm perisex/questioning, born in summer

I'm perisex/questioning, born in autumn

Remaining time: 6 days 17 hours

[is-this-intersexism]

Sigh. Some tiger blog is being such an arse….. :(

Got so annoyed I block. Spoke in a disgusting manner that I simply couldn’t look at it anymore. Pmos people are valid. X

this is intersexism

glad you blocked them <3

[gillyeowalters]

Honestly, at this point my need to interact with large portions of the queer community is closing in on zero. And that includes other intersex people.

Some of you are seemingly are so offended and scared by the thought of a cis (intersex) person sharing experiences with you, that you would rather belittle, misgender and be downright bigoted to a person, instead of being glad that you found someone else who knows and understands how it feels to be discriminated against.

I can't go into any tag, not even the intersex or intersexism tag, without having to read some post going "Cis people could never understand x experience" and it is something that I have been through myself.

"Cis people would never understand gender does not equal sex" -I am intersex. Of course I know.

"Cis people could never understand dysphoria" -they cut off entire parts of my genitals, including my penis and scrotum, making them unusable and forced me onto estrogen until I was 21 years old. How do you think I felt about that? People like me do not even get the grace of those unwanted changes happening naturally, they are forced onto us, maliciously. I get how it is to suffer dysphoria but most of you will never get the trauma that is having your body forcefully altered. You read the story of an IGM victim and think "well, that happened to them, that sucks", without realizing that the trauma never goes away. And I do not blame you. You haven't been through it. But shut your mouth when it comes to "how comfortable people like me must feel in their body".

"Cis people can't understand how it is to be discriminated against, just because you don't fit into societies expectations for your gender"- just plain fucking wrong, because gender nonconforming cis people exist. And yes, I know you love to imagine these people as "just eggs that haven't cracked yet" but guess what, you are a piece of shit for that. Being trans does not mean you have a better understanding of a person's gender than the person themself.

"Cis people will never know how it is to have laws that discriminate you for your gender identity"- fun fact, the only reason why I got to change my name, gender marker and got to get a mastectomy is because I genuinley used to identify as trans during my youth. A cis intersex person would not get the priviledge of changing their gender marker or getting their surgeries paid for unless they abandon their cis identity, regardless if they were forcefully reassigned or mutilated in their life. I still count as trans in my country, despite being an AMAB man. I will get hit by every anti-trans law. I had to go every difficult step a trans person had to go. But since I am cis, my experiences do not matter.

"Well, why don't you just identify as trans, then?" Because that would mean agreeing with my forceful and violent reassignment. And that is not the person I am. And I am not willing to abandon my identity, just because you feel uncomfortable with a cis person having similar experiences to yours.

But I can babble on about that as much as I want, because in the end you are all way to determined to uphold the binary of "trans means oppressed and never bigoted" and "cis means never oppressed and always bigoted. Oh, and too stupid to actually understand sex and gender and queerness." You are too fucking lazy to exchange "cishet" for "nonqueer" or at least "pericis" because ignoring people's experiences is so much easier than changing your vocabulary.

And with you I especially mean intersex trans people. You should know better. You rightfully complain about perisex people invalidating your identity and experiences and then turn around and do the same thing to a part of your own community.

I used to post in the transandrophobia tag a lot because as someone who lived as a trans man for over fifteen years a lot of the experiences resonated with me, but now every second day there is a post like the ones I have mentioned above. "You don't know how it is." I have known how it is for longer than most of you know that you are trans.