No dude, it's not good that the husband sees his wife as a helper to get out a crisis when he does something as stupid as leave on a trip without his bank cards. The fact that his "executive function" is fine at his work yet he's bothering her at her job is extreme weoponized incompetence to the point of potentially sabotaging her career.
It reads as blatant disregard for her time because it is. He's basically makes sure she's not able to enjoy time away from him if he's blowing up her phone. He's a grown ass man with his own job and a marriage, the problem is that he's not taking steps to stop the bs.











