Do you think Adam would even be interested in someone who's incredibly insecure about herself and the possibility of anyone loving her? Her first reaction when she's flustered by someone's compliment or even just attention isn't embarrassment, but a literal, abrupt shutdown of her emotions and a cold, inner questioning demeanor like, "Were you serious? Or were you just joking? Is there a catch? I don't know how to react until I figure this out." Even in the beginning of the relationship, she can calmly and easily do things for him, completely naturally, but all his signs of attention evoke this very "stone-hard" reaction in her, because somewhere deep down, she simply can't believe it happened?
Sorry for the long text, it's just a bit of a personal subject I guess, and I'm really interested to hear your opinion. How would Adam behave, how would everything go? Thank you for your attention.
I think he could, but it would not be a smooth easy relationship.
While id imagin him going mostly with the flow in relationships, I do see him getting frustrated with his S/O is constantly shutting down around him over things he find as a joke.
He doesn't like walking on eggshells, and he can be extremely blunt.
"You really think I would be with you if I didn't find you hot and perfect for me?"
Would be a harsh reality check of a question for you from him.
Like If he wasn't serious about you babes, he would not be in a relationship with you. Period.
Adam is definitely not the person to play with someones feelings like that. (Not when he knows how it feels to be played multiple times.)
So he would grow a but frustrated with you not taking his attention and affections seriously, its like a form of rejection to him.
"Why are you even with me, if your not going to take my attention and affections as genuine?"
At the end of the day, Adam knows its not his responsibility to manage your insecurities, that is something you have to work through on your own. Yet he cares for you enough to push you to go seek therapy (and thats saying something since this man avoids it like the plague.). Believing that if you had someone more professional to help you through your self issues might be way better than him saying something stupid trying to assure you.
If theres ways to help ease your insecured mind, he will try his best to do them. He wants you to get to the point where you dont question his adoration and love for you.
He aint big into "sappy emotional shit" so hes definitely not going to be writing love peoms or ballads of every single reason why he loves you or cares for you.
But, You might get caught off guard when a new viral music video of his is going crazy through out heaven. It wouldn't be super crazy as anytime Adam drops a song it goes viral and everyone and their mommas eat it up.
But this one is different, it came out of no where, He didn't mention it, didn't blog about cooking up a song for his adoring fans.
Just a random song & Video Drop.
The Title? Your name.
The Music videos Is him of course performing and the background hundreds, and i mean hundreds of pictures of you, some with you both toghether, but its mostly you.
Pictures you never knew he took of you.
And Damn bitch, he got ALL your good angles, like your face card goes HARD in every single one. The body? Its BODYYYYINNNG.
The song? Just for you too.
(For this Im headcannoning this song, positions covered by Relic Hearts,)
If this doesn't make you heart pound hard and flutter and make you feel just how much he cares and takes you and your relationship seriously, he doesn't know what would.
Adam wants your relationship to flourish, He wants it to grow. He wants you to know and see that.
The question that burns on his mind everytime he sees you shut down and pull away from him.
Do you?
Or is he just a place holder again?












