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[cuntycassandra]

I'm sorry that I forgot about Emma's pronouns! I just think that they're so beautiful and so hot!

That’s alright! I think Emma has gone on record saying that as long as no malice is meant, they totally get that people mess up sometimes! We’re only human!!

And you are SO right!! They are stunning 💛

[c-kiddo]

I could also see caddy stretching a shirt out,,, like weighing it down with rocks and leaving it to sit and stretch so it’ll be a little worn before he wears it

he's making it worse-shaped and comfier (good)

[id in alt text]

[notinsufferable]

anon from before:

YOU ALSO HAVE FUCKING HE/SHE PRONOUNS!!!! omg?????!!

no way... we r similar on too many levels

[bingobongobarry]

You: do not swear on my blog

Your very first ask: *swears*

It is unbelievable. Everyone swears so much and it is dirtying for the soul. Please, respect yourselves.

[thatreallyminecraftsmygender]

For more research purposes, what would be tango's reaction when he sees Impulse panicking and Skizz outside of the train? (Tango is also in the train) -Chaggle

okay idk if zed there zed is trying to lasso skizz with a lead or fish rod and tango is ezssentially doubled over laughin whilst trying to help zed recapture rescue the flying skiz by loosely holding the rope or he's meant to be pulling him back in but he's laughing too much

If zed isn't there then tango is maybe about to fly out the train with his elytra to save skiz and impulse is desperately trying to keep 2 idiots from dying due to trains antics

[expatesque]

Hey!! Given that we’ve all been isolating for so long now, I was wondering how you deal with spikes in anger/sadness etc when you’re living with a partner. I’ve found myself really snappy, I’ve always been quite a fiery person but it was less of an issue when we weren’t living in the same place. I’m not sure how to keep it in check, and I don’t want to upset him/make the home environment awkward!

Two things here: patience and space.

To start with: you can and should be asking for some space and alone time when lockdown gets too much. It is completely reasonable to ask your partner to go for a walk for an hour or sit in the park for an afternoon or work from a cafe (if you're at that place). Alone time is essential and important and you should feel able to ask for that in a solid relationship.

Secondly: patience. I used to think patient was something you are but I've learned over the last few years, and especially during lockdown, that it's also something you do -- and can practice and work on. Taking deep breaths, chosing to give your partner the benefit of the doubt, finding constructive ways to get that out irritation (kneading bread works wonders). But also just remembering that you love this person, and thinking of some memory with them that makes you smile. Remember, love is bread, not a stone -- it has to be remade every day. And choosing patience is one of the best ways.

[camp-paint-brush]

Hi, I miss my students. That’s all I wanted to say.

-Will💛