#askingramos

[kingramos]

I went to get food with my crush in a cafeteria and I saw his whole gang of friends so I expected him to sit with them when we got our food, but he stayed with me so we sat together. He had his back to their table, so I could see them and his friends kept looking back and smiling and whispering to each other. My friend told me that was good because that means "bro approval." What do you think?

Yes, it might be gestures of their approval but then, do not ignore the possibility that it can also be their way of telling that “Look, he’s doing it to her.”, meaning that a connivance between the guy and his friends is going on, and you are the reason behind it, if you know what I mean. I am not saying that he’s not seriously into you, though. But I guess, asking him straight up is the only way for you be at ease and know what really is the meaning of his actions towards you. :)

[kingramos]

Hello, I hope u can help, I'm just another high school girl, weird in fact. But I have a few good and even really close guy friends who have been confessing and kept their emotion for me for months to a year. I don't know what to do... For me friendship is the most important, I don't want to lose any friends and that's why I've always stayed single. I'm never searching for "the one" like most. So I'm not really asking which one to choose. I want to make it right, but I don't want to hurt anyone.

It is better if you will stick to your own principle and priorities then. If being in a relationship isn't your priority as of now, then so be it. I think you just have to be true to those guys about it and surely, they'll understand you, you will not be forced to choose among them and neither of those guys will get hurt. I really commend you for valuing friendship over a romantic relationship even you are already in high school. Don't worry about such things because it will come up next to you when you least expect it at the right time and with the right person. :)

[kingramos]

hey would you recommend volunteering at a hospital ?

Yes, of course. :) Though, I'm not volunteering at the moment but I am very certain that it will surely help you a lot and the experiences you'll learn, cognitively and technically, will improve your competency as a staff nurse in the near future. ;)

[kingramos]

Omg. You are really like the cutest thing ever with all the advice you are giving :) keep it up! You are so sweet >< I you have ever gotten hate before, don't particularly like someone or gotten into an argument or a dispute with someone on Tumblr. Cause you are so nice like asdfghjkl; <3

Aww. How sweet of you. :) Thank you so much! Don't worry, I won't. ;) Whoever you are, be my friend... now. ♥

[kingramos]

I've known this guy for a long time, I've been in love with him before. I didn't saw him in a while ans now i see him all the time because we have the same friends. I think I'm getting feelings for him again. But the problem is... I don't know how he feels. What should i do?

You just have to act normally as if you're just "friends". It is really hard to assume on what the other person feels for you, but, I guess, using your womanly instinct might help you in some ways. I am not really certain about this, but, just be keen and particular with the his gestures as you get along with him together with your friends will give you some hints, or better yet, try to get the 411 about him among your common friends but always remember to do that in a very subtle way. ;)

[kingramos]

i have sleep paralysis but what is it really and how can i deal with it? i had it all my life basically but recently i've heard the paranormal side to it and it is scary.

Honestly, I don't have enough knowledge about this kind of sleeping condition so I asked a very dependable mutual friend of ours, Google, for your benefit. ;) According to WebMD.com, sleep paralysis is a condition of being conscious but unable to move or speak for a few seconds up to a few minutes between the onset of sleep and/or wakefulness. Yet, it is not considered as a dangerous help problem. It may also be a symptom of another sleeping disorder called narcolepsy, it is when you brain's unable to regulate you sleep-wake cycle properly which causes excessive sleepiness and/or daytime sleep attacks. The paranomal side that you're thinking is maybe caused by the dream-like hallucinations which also comes with narcolepsy or I guess, you have just watched the Insidious movie, that's why. :) Kidding aside, well, I guess you have to make sure you are having enough sleep, try avoiding stresses especially before you go to sleep, avoid sleeping on your back and try other sleeping positions and most importantly, seek help to a doctor or specialist. I really hope what I just said will give you a little help.

[kingramos]

So yeah I'm in this long distance relationship and I'm in love with the guy but its hard. He is so busy with work and what not and it feels like I've been put on the back burner. I mean I totally understand and everything but it sucks. I feel like I'm too needy ha. I miss him a lot. I just feel sometimes like he no longer wants to come back to see me. But yeah what should I do?

Preoccupation with those kind of thoughts is a part of a long distance relationship, I guess. You just have to stop being insecure with your relationship and just continue to comprehend with the situation. You are not being needy, though. I think, it is just normal for you to feel that way. Better yet, grab the weekends, when he is free from work, to get the time to talk to him because I assume, that all you need is a little more communication with him to settle down your longing. Try also reading this posts, which, hopefully, will get you a little help. :)

[kingramos]

So, for sure, he likes me? I keep thinking that he only likes me as a friend. How can I be sure if he likes me back? Are there any signs to look for? Like, he's really touchy with me and oftens grabs my hand.

I am not definite about it but most probably he does. :) Those kind of gestures can be counted as indications that he likes you too not unless he does that also to other girls. I have answered that question before, here. :)