#aspec mlm

[mlmfujoshi]

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[nocturnaldogz]

weighted blankets arnt really working for me anymore i need to be crushed via boyfriend cuddles

[boywithbear]

on another episode of flags of mine I forgot to post on this account, my aspec mlm/nblm flag! this is for anybody on the ace and/or aro spectrums who are mlm or nblm! based on using the green from the aro flag and purple from the ace flag and meshing them together to represent the spectrum of identities and the blending of being mlm/nblm and aspec!

[flag description: flag with 7 horizontal stripes from top to bottom being green, light green, pale green, zombie grey, light purple, purple, and a darker purple. End of flag description.]

[nonbinarymlm]

Homophobia sucks so much, but wow men are hot. Queer men are just... Incredible. Sooo attractive. Unbelievable. Such a gift

[historymlm]

anyway a-spec and aro-spec mlm are amazing 💕💕💕

[feral-trans-faerieboy]

Bro what if we were in a QPR and we sent each other cute messages and talked fandoms and drew little doodles of our ocs playing video games 👀🙈💙

[aspecalpacas]

A-spec mlm shine brighter than the stars 🌟 The attraction you feel towards men is beautiful and important, and being a-spec doesn’t make you any less of a mlm

[nebulouscorvid]

based off @lesbian-ace-in-space post, want one for ace mlm and didn’t wanna derail a wlw post, so made one based off theirs

You can’t say your blog is “a safe space for all mlm” if you reblog posts that make a-spec mlm uncomfortable.

Don’t say “a-spec mlm included” or “all mlm are welcome here” if you:

   • reblog aphobic content (both explicit and implicit)    • reblog from aphobes    • refuse to acknowledge a post is aphobic even if an a-spec mlm tells you it’s making them uncomfortable    • don’t support a part of our identity

As a neurodivergent ace mlm, I deserve to know if your space is really safe for me, or if it’s dangerous for my mental health.

If it’s not safe for us, I and other ace mlm need to know so we won’t follow.

I am a gay man, I am ace, I am neurodivergent; the mlm part of my identity doesn’t erase my sexual orientation and seeing aphobic content in “mlm safe spaces” triggers my anxiety.