#atremiscrock

[beamjavelin]

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Detective Comics, artemis, Ori Solid Arity, ungodly unholy and terrifying content, neverending love, undying support, Sebastian Starreds Dew Vallens, cherry blossom trees in the spring

[carlylesbian]

hmm blue?

blue:

- what do you do when you’re sad? 

depends how sad. if its sad bc everything is going to shit and sucks i cry it out and go to sleep and how it passes. but if it isnt literally everything going to hell i: put on happy music, clean, sit down and write all my feelings down, read something happy or heartwarming

- what are some things you do when you can’t sleep? 

reading. or youtube but mostly reading

- what was the best (non-romantic) night you’ve had? 

i was on a camp when i was like 10 and we had a night, where all the teachers dressed up as monsters, ghost, etc, and ran us thru a forest scaring us and making us to challenges and shit! thats probably why im so scared of everything now

- what kind of covers do you have on your bed? 

light pink with lace from english home, and a white fur blanket!

- who is the last person you told a secret to?

idk probably warsaw gays group chat? i actually cant remember ndksfnksl

[jennifersbodies]

@atremiscrock i cant believe i havent known peace in 9 fucking years. i hope bryke cant sleep at night for what they’ve done to me..............

[jennifersbodies]

@atremiscrock i decided to take myself on a blast to the past and am watching my zutara AMVs from like 2007 (lmao) and i am getting PISSED OFF!!

[lesbitchka]

atremiscrock replied to your post “Why do you reblog bi/pan exclusionist posts???”

I think they read that message about bi exclusionists to mean people who exclude bi people, as opposed to bi people who are exclusionists

anon asked for bi exclusionists and bi positivity blogs, why would someone ask for both if they meant “people who exclude bi people” by the former

[kat-bots]

atremiscrock replied to your post “Can someone plz tell me why every yoi fic involves a) yurio getting...”

if I want I know a couple decent fics I can link you to later bc I'm about to sleep

yes please! That’d be so great

[thegalacticpope]

When has anyone equivocated sex to asexuals specifically? I don't think you used the right word so I am a little confused.

this is a valid question, and it’s amusing to me because I have another anon in my inbox trying to tell me the exact thing that you are questioning. People equivocate sex to asexuals all the time.

Basically, yes. People are equivocating asexuality with sex. They say keep asexuality away from children in literature because it has to do with sex. Which is wrong. Not only that, they’re implying that asexuality is dirty, asexuality is M rated, asexuality is too Impure™ for children.

The gist of it was “you shouldn’t headcannon young teens as asexual because that’s disgusting.” No. Sorry. My asexuality is not disgusting. 

The best part is that she completely ignored the pandemic of slash fiction where a majority of straight women fetishize mlm ships and often age up young characters to write them in sexual situations with gay partners. She’s okay with that. Because being gay is not too Impure™ for kids. Straight women turning gay men into predators who prey on kids doesn’t put a blip on her radar. But apparently being asexual does.

You are equivocating asexuality with sex when you say “Keep kids away from asexuality!” What you mean is keep kids away from sexual situations. But sexual situations are not necessary to discover that you are asexual. I knew I was disinterested in a lot of the things other kids my age were interested in when I was in my preteens. I didn’t want to kiss anybody. I didn’t want to dance with boys and grind on them. I was wholly uninterested. And I often felt there was something wrong with me. And I felt that way long before I knew what sex really was. How wonderful would it have been to discover that there were people like me at that age! How magnificent would it have been to read a book and find a character who was just like me? Fantastic. It would have saved me years of heartache. And ironically probably would have kept me out of sexual situations that I forced myself into to “try and be like everyone else”.

Also, as a society we are constantly bombarded with sexual images and implications? Scantily clad women in ads. Magazines filled to the brim with advice on how to kiss and date boys, how to send the “right” signals. Flirting has the ultimate endgoal of physical intimacy. Have you ever seen a perfume ad? Or a chocolate ad? Sex is being sold to us at every possible angle. As a kid it all made me uncomfortable and I didn’t know why? All the other girls loved that scene on disney channel that was the watered down physical romance they’re allowed to show kids. I did not. It made me uncomfortable. 

Just thinking about the potential of what an asexual character could have done fills me with joy. Wow, what would it have been like to read about an asexual kid when I was twelve? Life changing. And then some person comes and spews on Tumblr “KEEP THIS AWAY FROM KIDS. ITS DIRTY, IT’S IMPURE, IT’S WRONG.” now that’s disgusting.

And it’s so hypocritical to me. Like kids can be gay without being sexual. A little girl having a crush on another little girl isn’t inherently wrong. And neither is a little kid who is ace just trying to figure themselves out in a world that is hellbent on sex.

[tyrannohassleberry]

today in the snart house, a day of realizing things:

- josh’s sim became pregnant, an investigation led us to the conclusion that, thanks to the autonomous pregnancy mod, the snart family clown named Fartley Shartley is the other parent.

   - from that pregnancy came twin girls, Unice and Eunice Traveny, named after the famous Unice from urbandictionary’s definition of gaysexual

- it was discovered that tori and josh, despite their births being almost 2 years apart, are twins, separated at a young age

- i was #exposed as a gaysexualphobe, and dragged by tori and ellie for at least 20 minutes