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Rest in Peace Aunt T. We love and miss you sm.
Nov. 5, 1957 - March 9, 2026
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Rest in Peace Aunt T. We love and miss you sm.
Nov. 5, 1957 - March 9, 2026
My Aunt T. is v sick.
Please send good thoughts/vibes/prayers.
I'm literally going to crash out.
My Aunt T. HITS our yellow lab Bailey. I see and hear this - made a v loud thud noise. I immediately (within a second) stareted screaming at her for this. Aunt T. makes some bullshit excuses. First she didn't touch Bailey. When I didn't let up on Aunt T. then she "didn't hit her hard." Which is a lie. And ya know - I do not care how hard you hit Bailey! You don't fucking hit any dog! We've (my Mom and I) have had these fights with Aunt T. before. It "ended" when Aunt T. realized I wasn't letting up on her and she screamed at me to "Shut up!" When that didn't work (bc it never does) she put her hands over her ears and went "LALALALLALALALLALALALLALALALALLALALALLA..." V 68 year old woman of her. My Mom ended up taking all of our dogs outside bc they were getting scared from the yelling. I feel v bad about scaring the dogs but Aunt T. needed to be screamed at for hitting Bailey. After they went outside I tried just talking with Aunt T. Maybe reason would work? Never does with her so idk why I tried. I tried telling her "How would you feel if I just hit you when you did something I didn't like? Like you do to Bailey." She just screamed at me the moment I started talking. Did not stop screaming either. So I turned my music on full blast until she fucking left the livingroom. Slammed her bedroom door when she went in there.
I literally saved my Aunt T.s life yesterday bc I was the only one in the whole fucking hospital to notice there was something wrong with her.
I had to be the world's most annoying person for over an hour to every medical staff member that entered her room and the hallway connected to her room. Given the nursing staff did listen to me. The nursing staff immediately checked my Aunt T. out when I told them my concerns and contacted her doctor. We were actually waiting for blood test results that the doctor ordered. They just didn't run the right test to find out what was wrong. It was my Aunt T.s CNA who ran the correct test and figured out her blood pressure was like 70/30. Then everyone came running into her room bc she was literally dying.
So some lessons you can all learn for this situation-
Trust your gut. If you think something is wrong with your friend/family while they are in the hospital tell every staff member you can until someone helps. Even if the staff members are saying they can't seem to find anything wrong. Keep telling staff members. You know your friend/family member way better than the medical staff does.
It doesn't matter what level of medical training someone has. Always tell all your family/friends medical team about your concerns. It was my aunts CNA who has the lowest level of medical training that figured out what was wrong. The two doctors who visited my Aunt T. while we were waiting for the bloodwork to come back were of no help. One doctor even refused to listen to my concerns. He literally said "I'm just the heart rhythm doctor. I don't deal with that stuff."
I feel like a piece of my heart has been ripped out and destroyed.
What is the point of being alive?
Aunt T. literally tried to start a physical fight with me!
I am not stupid enough to fight a 68 year old. I have never fought anyone before and I will be keeping it that way thank you v much. Aunt T. took a step towards me, made the come at me motion with her hand and said "You wanna fight?!? Come at me!" I didn't say anything. I didn't move from where I was sitting. Why tf would I get into a physical fight with her? My Mom screamed at her to "Cut it out!" And she did. Then 2 minutes later Aunt T. Is trying to talk to me like nothing happened!!!!!! I got so pissed I screamed at her! Like - how are you going to just try to physically fight me and then not even 5 minutes later be fine with me to the point you're sitting next to me and calmly talking!?!?!
Aunt T literally screamed at me to "Shut up! Shut up! Shut up! Shut up!" And then tried talking to me not even 5 minutes later like nothing happened. Then she thinks she has the right to be mad at me bc I said I didn't want to talk to her.
You know, I love you more than I love you. You know what it means."
My drunk Great Aunt Tanya