#autistic genderqueer

[pridewishes]

♔ || MIMIKYU ICONS

250x250 || genderqueer autistic || bordered circle

like / rb + credit + read dni if using

requested by anon !!

[gendernull]

autistic genderqueer, autistic neutrois, and autistic maverique flags!

[ndtransaspeccultureis]

Autistic aroace genderqueer writer culture is making all your characters aroace nd/autistic and/or genderqueer/trans. Whether by accident or not, they all end up that way lol.

[ponetium]

I am a genderqueer, and I don't belong.

- I was told that I don't belong in feminism and women spaces because I am not women enough. - My female-passing body is not effecting the way other see me, apparently, because I am not a woman and don't belong in the feminist fandom. - I am about 4.3% women and 4.5% man, so...I an not women enough because it is not a "major part of my identity", thus I don't belong. - I am invited to women only spaces for "wonen empowerment" because I pass as women. But I am not, and I don't feel like one. - I am treated like a person who you can choose what gender they are when you invite them. I get invited as a man or as a woman, but never as a non-binary person. I don't get to choose how to present when I am invited. - I am not man enough, even if I have lots of gender dysphoria and I am not welcome in trans man places - because they are only for "trans man and genderqueer boys". I and my GQ friend not trans enough for a Buck Angel fan meet. I will be welcome if I will always use male language choices in a language that doesn't have gender neutral options. - My father automatically explains tech stuff to my male partner, like I am not there. - I was shamed when I used hammer and nails because it is a "man's work". - I am an ally to women, but I have to pretend to be a woman to get support for things that are about my femininity. In feminist spaces I have to shut up and listen. Even if my experiences are oh-so similar and I want to cry with you. - Men ignore me when I try to participate in a discussion about phones. - I get some shit for feeling like Lolita fashiom is feminine but not women's fashion, because it is not a cross dressing for me. If it is a woman's fashion it means it belongs only to women, and...I am not one. - People are angry with me for changing my FaceBook name several times because of closet issues and then because FB don't allow me to use the name I wanted, and requires me to use my birthname - so I can't stay closeted and it will expose me to people who already treat me like shit because I am autistic and can't use body language (they don't know I am autistic, but it is very clear that it throws them off). - People tell me I just have to choose one gender and stick with it. - People tell me I am a woman because I have ovaries. - People tell me I haven't ever experienced misogyny because I am not a woman. I am a man. - People mock me for saying that if I woke up in a male body I will still feel gender dysphoria. - I opt out from women's spaces and from men's spaces because I don't belong there. - Mixed spaces are usually very hetero-cis, so I don't belong there either. - People say that people like me are misogynist because we are trendy shit who hates womenhood and women. I don't hate women, I wish I could feel whole as a woman, but I just...Don't. - I get thrown out of man's "trying on clothes space" in a store because I look female. No one is there and I didn't see the sign, and this is clearly the man's section clothing soI have to get out. - If I wear a mix of man ond women clothing I am seen as a women. If I wear women clothing I am seen as a woman. If I wear what other man around me wear I am seen as a slobby woman. Or as man. - People just can't acknowledgement that I am mostly not a man or a woman. - The feeling that my autism has a major contribution to my gender is seen as a symptom of my autism. - My gender is not valid. - I am not really trans because I don't want to medically transition until I have children and finish chest-feeding them. - Some binary trans people say I am a joke and a circus freak. That I am the reason transphobes don't take them seriously. - My Russian background is seen as a proof I can't be a...whatever I am, because we (USSR origin women) are all so feminine and beautiful. And I am really ugly. - I don't date monosexuals and monoromantic people because they will see me as a man or a woman. Man are offended. - I see a cute gay man on the beach. For a second I forget my boobs and want to flirt with him. And then...I look down. Shit.