#avril.chr

[aethereal-boy]

if you say that someone’s disability is self-inflicted or that they make it worse because of lifestyle choices like smoking or drinking or not exercising, fuck right off.

my ex (who’s a shitty person anyway but that’s another story) used to say those things to me a lot, that i wasn’t doing everything i can to not be disabled so i deserved the pain i was in, i deserved to faint, i brought it on myself so i deserved it

what she forgot is that i was a cripple before i started doing those things. in fact, i sort of used them to cope for a while because my brain is Not Nice about me being disabled (it’s Not Nice about anything really, but this post isn’t about my brain)

so here’s your reminder that disabled people can smoke, drink, be ‘lazy’ and do whatever the fuck we want, and your opinion on it is bullshit. and if you’re disabled, here’s your reminder that you don’t need to feel guilty for doing ‘unhealthy’ things, we all have our vices, ways of coping and things we just enjoy doing, and anyone who shames you for them can go fuck themselves.

-Avril / Supernova (literally any pronouns)

[aethereal-boy]

if you’re looking at my blog cos i’ve spammed you with likes congrats! i liked your stuff so much that i got past my anxiety about spam liking people because of how (rightfully) pissed off it makes tiktok and instagram users, and those are my main socials! your blog interests me / makes me happy / is cool and i see things i like or agree with there!

[aethereal-boy]

cos i feel like explaining what i mean and letting people know about how to refer to me

when i sign off and say ‘literally any pronouns’ i mean literally any

go wild

i like all traditional pronouns

i like all neopronouns

i like all xenopronouns / nounself pronouns

i only ask for one thing

if you’re using pronouns for me in a public space you don’t use emoji pronouns, save them for spaces where someone those are inaccessible to won’t come across them being used.

i also use two names! they’re Avril (my ‘normal’ name) and Supernova (my ‘killjoysona’ name)

you can use either, although most people call me Avril - i just had a huge killjoys phase and created a very cool killjoy OC who i stole the second name from.