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Hey if you recently sent me a long ask on anon, I only got the second half of it! Please resend, anon!

🐷 Junk food you can never get enough of

Holy crap thank you for notifying me, Tumblr

Anyway, hmm. I found out the hard way that all-you-can-eat shrimp deals are my vice and also a challenge. I will eat three plates of shrimp.

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So im gay and this My bf and i have been together for a minute but suddenly everything has gone to shit and im super unhappey. we have alot of history and he was my first love. but now im missrable he never talks to me and it feels like im putting in all the work. he works alot and i get him not having time but i work two full time jobs and still make time for him. but he dont for me. This new boy has started talking to me and actually cares for me and is like perfect. Help im so confused

Heya, Anon. I apologize not getting on this sooner, but I’ve had some pretty heavy stuff going on this week.

I’ve always thought that the key to any relationship is communication. Unreleased resentment and bitterness can do a lot of unintentional damage. So can unvoiced hurt. It might be scary to get it all out there, but doing so makes you feel so much better.

Let your lover know how you feel with statements such as “I know you’ve been working a lot and I understand, but I feel left behind.” Odds are that wasn’t their intention and they’ve just got a lot on their mind.

It may also be worth it to check in with their emotional state as well. Is their job stressing them out too much? Has something happened? Are they feeling okay? Let them know you love them and are concerned.

I would not get involved in another relationship unless your first one has ended and you’ve had a little time to sort yourself out. Things can get messy when this happens and you’re not in a poly relationship, which involves the consent of all parties, including your current partner.

I really hope that a calm talk between you two will sort things out. I wish you the best of luck, Anon!

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SO I JUST RECENTLY DESCOVERED THAT I'M GAY (IM A BOY) AND I HAD BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL FOR THREE YEARS AND I JUST BROKE UP WITH HER BECAUSE IVE BEEN HAVING ISSUES WITH THE RELATIONSHIP, FOR OBVIOUS REASONS. I HAVEN'T TOLD HER THAT I'M GAY YET BECAUSE I DON'T WANT HER TO THINK THAT SHE MADE ME GAY BUT STAYING IN THE RELATIONSHIP WAS PART OF THE REASON I HAD TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL, I JUST GOT OUT. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO SHE IS BEING REALLY MANIPULATIVE TO ME TRYING TO GET ME BACK HELP?

Hey Nonnie! I hope you’re feeling better now that you’re out. First of all, I’m not a professional but I have quite a bit of expertise in manipulative relationships. It’s fantastic that you can recognize shitty behavior when you see it. Often manipulators don’t see what they’re doing or refuse to acknowledge their behavior.

I’d explain to her your feelings, if you can. Sometimes writing out a script can be helpful. If she starts being abusive, you may have to put your foot down and simply just walk away. Don’t contact her, even if she tries to twist your wrist into it. Blocking features can be your best friend.

Honesty is the best option, even if it also is the scariest one. I get how hard it is to be up front with someone like that. I hope you’re being kind to yourself in this and remember, you are good and it’s okay to stand up for yourself. You can do this! Good luck!

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