To his credit, John wasn’t deceived by appearances. Each day, he met his friends by the entrance, then accompanied them down a wide flight of cast-iron stairs to the crowded canteen, where they lounged across a tiny stage reserved exclusively for the annual college dress designers’ show and ate the students’ staple of baked beans on toast, with tea. The canteen was noisy, but its appeal was “you could smoke there,” says a classmate who occasionally joined the boys for lunch. As soon as everyone got settled, John would “whip out a pack of fags” and entertain Paul and George with “stories about the art school birds he was shagging,” spinning tales with about as much veracity as a fortune-teller. Eventually their attention was drawn toward “an older, ethereal, very talented painter” named Johnnie Crosby, who fashioned her appearance after Brigitte Bardot, with slinky, formfitting sweaters and “wonderful honey-blond hair piled up into a beehive,” and sat alone each lunch hour at the opposite side of the stage, her long legs crossed provocatively in deference to the boys who were “swanning about and drooling over her.”
“Hey, John? Have you had her yet?” they’d chime in „a chorus of breathless anticipation. To which John would glumly snap, “No!” before amending it to “Not yet.”
John had no way of knowing the effect that his boasts of casual sex had on other classmates. All around him, he saw fellow students living out their bohemian fantasies. He just assumed that included sexual fulfillment. And yet, for all the free-spiritedness, the art college crowd remained frightfully inexperienced. “A student’s having sex wasn’t socially acceptable,” says Ann Mason, who fought off escalating advances from Geoff Mohammed with game defiance. “Contraception was not easy to come by; you couldn’t get it without some dispensation from the vicar that said you were getting married within the next three weeks, and even then you needed credentials proving you were worthy of family planning. Actually, I didn’t know anyone at school who was having casual sex aside from the teachers—and John Lennon.”
In fact, Barb Baker had resisted his constant groping for nearly a year. She was “too afraid of getting pregnant” to surrender to their lust and said that “as far as we got were kisses and cuddles.” Still, they teased each other with maddening recklessness, necking and petting, until „sleeping together seemed like the only recourse. Pleadingly, calculatingly, John swore his undying love, “proposing to [Barb] nearly every night.” Things got so intense between them that “getting pregnant… no longer mattered,” she said, and so in the spring of 1958 they “became each other’s first [sexual] experience.