#bbb.prompt

[your-bigender-big-brother]

What gender (or genders) are you?

[your-bigender-big-brother]

What made you realize you have more than one gender?

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[your-bigender-big-brother]

Is there an aspect of your gender that is deliberately unnamed or is just simply unable to be named? Sometimes, we opt out of using terms for certain aspects of ourselves or we have those kinds of aspects that just can't be named. Is that something you experience?

I've pretty much named every part of my genders and the aspects that make them up. I guess the only thing I never found a label for was the part where my manhood and my aporinity overlap. Neutramale sounds like it could fit but I haven't really looked into it. I don't know that I need to.

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Tell me one good thing that happened to you last week. I solved my first Rubik's cube using a guide last night and I kept up with my ASL learning. I even made flash cards!

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Pride Month Ask Game (2025)

Here are some gender-related questions for your followers to ask! You can also go ahead and answer them all yourself. Let's get people talking about their experiences!

Talk about a time when your relationship with gender changed drastically. Was it something you learned about yourself or was it something you learned about someone else?

What’s something about your gender that doesn’t make sense to anyone but you?

Write a letter to your past and future selves. Include support, validation, comfort, new discoveries, motivation etc. Tell your past self what you’ve learned so far in your journey. Ask your future self questions.

Talk about experimenting with new names: What stuck and what didn’t stick? Did you choose more than one?

“If my gender was a soundtrack”: Describe the instrumentation, tone, theme, genre, etc.

Describe your ideal gendered self, both outward and inward.

Talk about the first time someone got your pronouns right. Did it feel good? Was it weird?

Talk about an outfit or article of clothing that changed everything for you.

Share the weirdest or silliest assumptions people have made about your gender.

What is your experience specifically in queer Tumblr spaces?

Review some individual genders in your hoard and talk about what you like about them. Do you like the words themselves, how you relate to them, the flags, the history, or something else?

Share an OC of yours who is queer in some way, or make one on the spot! Include the name, pronouns, gender, species, likes and dislikes, and a little bio.

Share an interesting or uncommon queer headcanon of yours. It can be from any kind of media.

What are your gender goals? They don’t have to be transition goals, but you can focus on plans for coming out, presenting in a certain way for the first time, or taking on a new label.

Where in the community do you draw the most inspiration? This could be as a neolabel coiner, a flag maker, a writer, or any other kind of community member.

What would you want more people to know about your gender?

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[your-bigender-big-brother]

Have you ever discovered a label that helped you realize you were a different but similar gender? Maverique did that for me. I related to it for the most part but it didn't sound quite like me. Turns out that it was the quality of maverique - maverine - that I actually felt a connection to.

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚

[your-bigender-big-brother]

What brings you joy as a nonbinary person?

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚

[your-bigender-big-brother]

What's one character from any kind of media whose gender you relate to? Do they give you gender envy or do you simply relate to their aesthetic or experience?

I haven't quite found mine yet.

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚