#be flirty

[peachysunbeamandmidnightblossom]

Link is so flirty with Mamrie in their ‘this might get’ ep.

[mjax1]

My husbands mother has a pool. A beautiful pool, and we have started finally making GOOD use of it.

My husband has ruined ear drums, he refuses to swim without his ear plugged up and he’s smart to do so. In the past it has taken me a LONG time to convince him to swim. If he doesn’t have ear plugs he won’t. This summer he’s been good about having wax and has been swimming with me and the kids a lot.

And he’s done this...thing.

Where while were in the pool, he dunks me, or grabs my leg as I go by, or flips me over while I’m in an inner tube. He splashed me and plays with me.

He Flirts with me.

We’ve been married five years. We’ve had two kids, we’ve had three miscarriages, we’ve gone through a hellish first year with our son, I’ve gained (sssoooo much) weight and....he flirts with me.

I feel like I’m 16 in the pool with my boyfriend. I feel like I’m important and cherished and adored. And I know it’s a tad bit silly...but I love that he’s been doing this. I just love the playfulness of it. There’s no malice, it’s not...there’s no meanness when he does it.

It’s just a boy being playful with a girl.

And I just absolutely love it.

[averageisa]

How exactly does one flirt? I need some advice.

[thisbeachedwhale-blog]

You wanna talk but there’s not much to clarify. We don’t hate you or begrudge you or anything like that. I wasn’t happy with what happened, so I vented a bit dramatically when I got drunk. I don’t really care about it that much though. We accept that this thirsty vibe is a part of who you are when you’re under the influence and therefore less in-control. No one wants to be like this; I can understand that.  I just think you’re a thirsty guy, but that’s okay. You take the good and the bad with friends. 

...but I hate how embarrassing it is when you’re persistent in the wrong ways with nonstrangers.  Which is mostly cause I did have a revelation about myself and maybe I project it onto you. I hope I’ve improved my drunk persona. I don’t wanna be thirsty either. I don’t wanna fuck anyone when I’m drunk, but the idea of being to hit on people becomes so appealing. Doesn’t that mean I come off as thirsty too?

 I think what really bothers me isn’t the thirst, but the inability to understand where lines are drawn. Cause I love the casual banter at parties, but when I black out and wake up to being told someone was trying to take off my pants or I kissed 15 people it feels uncomfortable that I wasn’t able to draw the line myself. And when I hear you got rejected three times and still had the audacity to send a fucking seriously obnoxious text after anyways, I cringe. It’s like girls are the only things on your mind. This weekend though really solidified my abstract image of how you operate. I wasn’t a friend, I was a girl. I hate the idea of overboard. That’s the image I have of you after all this though. And the idea that this image is attached to me is kind of hard to deal with too. Thirsty guys don’t just end up at parties, they get invited because they have friends. We’re friends.

[silver-rivers]

[typostrate]

Be

Flirty this summer with some wine from togetherwecandreate studio - just be.