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“Is it too early to start thinking about New Year’s Resolutions?”
“I have a couple in mind.”
“I want to learn to be more assertive with what I want, but not so assertive that I come off as a mean person.”
“I also want to try more new things next year and spend less time ruminating about risks and disasters.”
i tried to make them easily measurable :)
also i want to go on one hike per month at least, one fun outing for myself per month at least, work more on making my house feel like home, work more in therapy, work on improving in my career, spend more time with my pets, write more, and dont know what else but i do know that i want to make the most of this year because i am tired of holding off on doing anything fun for myself and just spending all my time working, sleeping, and running errands... like it’s not fair to myself that i save leisure for a time that will never come so here it comes!
happy new year everyone!!
Boundaries are your pillar...
So apparently like half of my extended family knows I'm transgender and accept it but still refuse to refer to me with male pronouns and the name Spencer, and that kind of really pisses me off.
2015 Goal
I just want to be a better child. Run. Be foolishly brave. Scrape my knees. Cry when I'm hurt, laugh when I'm happy. Grow. Love. Learn. Keep it simple.
Remind me to tell people when I don't want them over? Like that could have avoided like most of my discomfort and feeling of bleh tonight. Everyone else was fine, I'm okay with them. It's just that one person.
People need to stand up for something
And not in that obnoxious "I’m the shit" sorta way because obviously there’s a way to get things done in a civil manner. But I mean there are so many times when people have a chance to say "Hey! Wait a minute!" But they don’t. Maybe it’s because they’re afraid to speak their mind, or maybe they don’t like creating conflict, I don’t know. But if it’s important, none of that should matter anyway. Don’t let the moment leave you looking back and thinking, I could/should have said something or stopped it or changed it. Don’t be so fucking passive all the time; believe in something and defend it.
