#5 for the salty asks meme!
Has fandom ever ruined a pairing for you?
I mean, if you saw my last answer, this should come as no surprise AT ALL but the Bel//larke fandom is the Confirmed Worst. They are the Harmony of the modern era and I cannot believe I had to live through the Harry Potter ship wars just to watch Harmony 2.0 rise again in The 100 fandom. Obviously, I know that there are certainly reasonable individuals in the fandom, but the fandom groupthink is hella strong and trends towards being wildly reactionary, seemingly incapable of seeing nuance, and more than a little misogynistic.
I’m constantly ?????? at the fact that Bell//arkers are so deep into their cups with Clarke hate like HOW! DOES! THAT! MAKE! SENSE! SHE IS HALF YOUR SHIP????????
Just kidding, I’m not that ???? about it, because, you know, misogyny.
The fandom also engages in the most ridiculous hypocritical bullshit - like, I cannot tell you how I had to see post after post from confirmed Bell//arkers about how fucked up it was that Octavia beat her brother, and then have this same damn fandom talk about how Clarke needed to get her ass beat/the shit slapped out of her, like, alright Nancy, once again I see your internalized misogyny.
They also seem incapable of enjoying the show in any way, shape or form unless it’s about their ship? And thus I have to see all sorts of truly bizarre and often hilarious word salad meta that basically amounts to “Bell//amy said the word key in that one scene that one time, which means he’s the key and that must mean that Bell//arke is the key that will save everyone except that Clarke can’t be a key because she’s a terrible person and Octavia doesn’t deserve her brother’s love because love is the real key and there is no love purer than Bell//amy’s.”
I really used to get angry about it all (and obvs I still do because I have a lot of anger in my tiny little Filipino body), but mostly I’m just ????? and also tired.