you know the writers really didnt see Bonnie as desirable when Caroline and tyler fucked THE SECOND they revealed they had feelings for each other
Stefan and Elena slept together after around two months of knowing each other
yet jeremy and bonnie canonically didnt sleep together until s5...MID SEASON 5 TO BE SPECIFIC
even if people can say oh well they broke up s3 and didnt get back together til s5
they still dated s2 in which stelena had like a dozen make out scenes
I’m too lazy to look this up for accuracy on how long Bonnie was there but Beremy could’ve had sex in the witches house way back in s2. Bonnie was supposed to be “dead”, out of the way from Klaus to ensure she’d have the upper hand when it was time to face him. Unless Bon was growing her own fruit in the yard… Jeremy had to been the one bringing her food or whatever other necessities to keep Klaus from seeing her… we know it wasn’t Rudy. If the problem was showing Kat’s body, a simple scene of one of them changing would’ve been enough implication but no lol. When Beremy does have sex Bonnie’s in physical agonizing pain..
If anyone else was stuck in the prison world with Damon they would’ve hooked up. “But Elena feels—“ would’ve been a non-factor. Especially when you can see in early stages of tvd Bamon does have moments where you can see some romantic subtext.
Shane/Silas and Bonnie was a textbook example of the student/teacher grooming trope. But no Shane couldn’t even be into her romantically he only wanted her for her magic. Which… if you rewatch their scenes together lol. Something romantic is there. Bonnie’s giggling, defending him to everybody… as if he was her boyfriend. The fact that she eventually had to accept his betrayal and the plot did nothing else with it… typical
Luka and Ben the bartender both were “interested” but it was about her magic/for someone else.
Jamie? He likes her, so what he’s everything Abby wanted in a child vs Bonnie? Think abt it: Bennetts seem to birth women & witches. Abby didn’t want to be a witch so in a way Jamie her new child is perfect. So what, you’ll never see him again and he’s her adoptive brother. Not like Bonnie couldn’t have started something up with Klaus or Kol during her break up with Jeremy. SO WHAT, Julie threw a tantrum on twitter when she was actively pushing Klaroline at the time.
Kai and Bonnie? No can’t have that. It would ruin Kai from being an irredeemable villain. It would break and destroy Bonnie’s character. But, yeah Kai has feelings for Bonnie but that’s it.
Bonnie and Stefan? Sorry, that’ll be dropped in exchange for Steroline’s love story.
Bonnie can only ask what kissing the bad boy is like with Elena. Bonnie can only vent and laugh with Caroline or another about wanting to be hooking up vs dealing with magic problems. Bonnie can only dream of having a happy life with Enzo.. but she can’t have that
There’s a post by this creator here about how some WW cannot fathom that someone that isn’t white can be considered prettier than them. Which is exactly what happened in the tvd writing room. Those women couldn’t understand why those male or women actors wanted to be paired up with Bonnie/Kat when they saw Bonnie/Kat as someone beneath them. Liv and Bonnie was a good option too. Same for Bonnie and Nora. Neither one of those could happen but Freya got to be Bisexual…
I know til this day it eats Julie alive that if anyone ask Ian about Bamon he’s going on a tangent about them not dating or sleeping together made no sense lol.
It’s just telling that theirs so many scenes of these white women characters and the opposing sex that blurs the lines of consent and yet when it came to Bonnie everyone had control of themselves…
Julie was yapping on in book about how Bonnie HAD to be the one that didn’t fall for Damon’s charms and yet she’s the one who insulted Elena to make a point about how wrong Bamon is and I just lmfao ALRIGHT GIRL!