#beozer

[mercurialmalcontent]

I realize it's an inappropriate question to ask now. I assumed your blog was anonymous & your gender ambiguous so I didn't see the harm. But clearly it was wrong. I'm sorry.

Oh good! You put the shovel down before you dug yourself too deep a hole. Apology accepted; please, please, please don’t ever do this to anyone ever again.

I know it’s super tempting when you really disagree with someone to look for some detail that will prove that they’re talking out of turn or couldn’t know what they’re talking about, but. Don’t. Don’t do the thing. Argue their actual points, present evidence from your own perspective, and for heaven’s sake don’t assume that because someone disagrees with you on matters of gender they must be cis. It’s never, ever okay to ask someone to out themselves by asking if they’re cis or not. 

This has been really upsetting for me, and I’m pretty resilient! It’s not worth risking hurting a fragile person just to score points in an internet argument.

[mercurialmalcontent]

Does that mean yes?

So you, total stranger, just waltzed into my askbox and demanded to see what’s in my underroos, and when I reacted appropriately, i.e. totally aghast, you decided to persist. That’s a thing that just happened. Did someone raise you wrong as a joke, or did you work at turning out this way?

The really lolsob thing about this is that if you’d taken the time to do your own research by paging through my blog and reading a little, you could have found the answer to your question all on your own without asking invasive questions you have no business asking of strangers. Because, if you haven’t gotten my point yet, THIS IS NOT SOMETHING YOU SHOULD ASK OF STRANGERS, EVER.

But that would have meant taking some time and accidentally getting to know me as a person a little, and that means effort! Why put forth effort when you can march up to a total stranger and start demanding personal information as if you have any right to it?

[mercurialmalcontent]

Are you cis?

Hey roachpatrol, look! I got one, too!

[mandaloriangf]

beozer replied to your post: at least now i know i should never cal...

Right? And anyway he’s the one that used child abuse to get himself off the hook.

oh my god he really did that?

[black-butterflies-and-deja-vuu]

Hey! My new theme had room for 9 links, and I didn't know what to include so I linked your blog, because it's one of my favourites. Is that alright?

Yeah, that’s fine! I like your new theme btw :)

[black-butterflies-and-deja-vuu]

I was just thinking that you look a bit like Nomi aha. You could be her younger sister.

Haha, thanks! I’ll take that as a compliment. I love Nomi! <3 

[trashpits]

Romantic interest isn't really my thing, but you're really cute and super nice. I definitely have a platonic crush on you!!

platonic crushes are great for real omg

thank you so much ccc: