#bernardsbendystraws

[youarenotalone101]

my experience with rose

i feel like it's finally my turn to say something. i've kept this to myself for so long but seeing people still love rose, and now that she's finally gone i can't stay quiet anymore.

i was 15. the whole time i was so confused. she would constantly talk sexual with me, telling me about her fantasies and making comments i didn't even understand yet. she asked me to call with her, and on those calls she'd always bring up sexual stuff. i didn't know what to say. i just remember feeling weird, uncomfortable like i had to just sit there and go along with it even though i didn't want to.

eventually i blocked her. she blocked me back, and then i deactivated. since then tumblr hasn't felt safe for me. every time i see her name or people saying how much they love her it brings all of it back.

i think this is the last time i'll ever be on here. i don't even know why i'm writing this except that i just want to finally be heard. i've carried this for so long in silence and maybe it doesn't even matter anymore but it matters to me.

the worst part is i barely have any screenshots because i deactivated my account back then. that makes me scared no one will believe me. it scares me that most of this only exists in my memory and maybe only i will ever know what truly happened.

sometimes i feel like maybe i'm being dramatic. like maybe i overreacted or made it bigger than it was. but then i remember how sick it made me feel, how confused i was how i didn't even know what to say when she would start talking sexual with me. i was 15. that shoulve been enough for her to know it was wrong

i don't know. maybe i'll regret posting this maybe people won't believe me, but at least i finally said it out loud.

please i beg, interact with this any way i really want to feel heard it feels like im being dramatic but then I remember how much it still bothers me.

tags for awareness@cvnntagious @darksturnz @y3sterdaysproblem @passionfruitchris @nickssidewitch @humpster35

[sturniolotruthhurts]

@bernardsbendystraws you can’t ignore it and expect it to go away!

many people may be curious or confused as to what I am talking about so let’s dive in.

bbs (aka rose/bernardsbendystraws) has expressed that she wanted to start writing for wyler (wednesday and tyler) from wednesday season 2. wednesday is 16 years old in the show. A FUCKING MINOR (no surprise bc we all know how rose is with minors? the words bernardsbendystraws and minor in the same sentence? EVERYBODY ACT SURPRISED!). and tyler is 16-18 years old.

although the actors for wednesday and tyler are above 18, rose didn’t say she wanted to write for jenna ortega or hunter doohan. she said tyler and wednesday. ⬇️

somebody in roses inbox asked where to read fanfictions of wednesday and tyler. and in response, she said AO3. AO3 has very sexual content and also very deep kinks in the pieces of content writers make and post. ⬇️

she also wrote in a post that she wants tyler to fuck her, i will put the image of that below. ⬇️

I made a separate account to speak about this because I don’t want my main account to be bombarded by messages of roses minions coming at me.

in all seriousness and and truth, rose is not a good person. she has been in allegations about minors. she’s weird and she does not deserve the following in the platform and any of the support that she gets daily.

in addition, when I saw the post she made about wanting to write for wednesday and tyler, i sent her many asks, letting her know that wednesday and tyler are under the age of 18 just in case that she didn’t know that. but instead this girl decided to ignore all of them and act like it wasn’t happening.

this girl continues to make stupid ass decisions on this platform every month. and every time she doesn’t answer asks that are calling her out it’s always to “protect her peace”. I CALL BULLSHIT!! I sent an ask to two different creators on here about this situation to try and get more recognition on it. I assume that they will end up seeing this post either way so i won’t tag them unless they comment themselves!

i don’t like starting drama on sturnblr. i hate it, frankly. but, the fact that somebody like this is on here, it needs to be adressed asap and talked about.

the truth will ALWAYS. come out even if you don’t think it will.

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[y3sterdaysproblem]

interacting with minors on tumblr? almost unavoidable.

being friends with minors on tumblr? beyond avoidable and seemingly the bare minimum.

writing smut with and engaging in collabs with minors? you are seriously sick and deserve absolutely no platform on here or anywhere else within the fandom.

how many times does rose have to fuck up and do weird shit on here until you guys realize she is the biggest issue we have on sturn tumblr! she’s always causing drama and then acting like she’s the one to fix it.

a few months back when we had an issue with an adult speaking sexually to a minor, she was the first person to make not only one post about it but multiple posts until this woman no longer had an account. she was doxxed, her job was called, her family members were contacted and rose fought tooth and nail to make sure everybody knew that this grown woman was saying inappropriate things to a minor.

now, rose thinks it’s okay to write smut with a minor that’s even younger than the ones affected in the situation a few months back. not only is she friends with said minor, but she’s actively exposing her to inappropriate content and encouraging her to partake in the content as well.

“but she would’ve read/written smut anyway!!”

yeah we all consume content at a young age that we shouldn’t, that’s the unfortunate reality of children having access to the internet, but it’s different to be an adult, and not only an adult that’s over eighteen but one that’s over twenty-one, engaging with a minor, a child, in such a lewd and inappropriate way.

my cousin who’s fifteen loves the triplets and it’s something we talk about all the time, she’s one of my favorite people in the whole world and i’m in contact with her every day, but my fan accounts and the content in which i post on them are hidden from her because she is a child. as the adult, i refuse to be the person to expose her to the things that i say about the triplets on here, let alone the things that i write. if she happens to stumble across things like that then so be it, but i am not going to be the person that makes her aware of the things that exist on the internet.

and rose if you see this and want to do damage control like you always do, no i will not talk about this with you. put on your big girl panties (if you can find some that perv matt or obsessive matt or whatever sick shit you write with minors didn’t take them all) and grow the fuck up.

bernardsbendystraws you are disgusting.

the triplets would hate your ass!!!!

[cvnntagious]

though i know the rose situation is basically over and done with (for now), i still have one last thing i’d like to add real quick: please, if you’re going to continue to support @bernardsbendystraws in any way, unfollow, or better yet, block me.

your support is enabling rose in her disgusting actions, and i absolutely refuse to watch that happen. i’ve been informed by multiple people who have talked to rose since shes been called out that she doesn’t actually see anything wrong with her what she did, and still fully believes she’s being unfairly called out. i would not be surprised if she tries to come back soon like nothing happened, so if (let’s be honest, when) that happens, i truly do not want to see people making excuses for her, or allowing her to believe that what she did is okay whatsoever

[fadedstvrn]

Now that bernardsbendystraws is no longer on the platform (as far as I’m aware) I nominate @mi-co-uk to be the new ‘it girl’ account xx

[desturns]

if i have to see this bitch ass , fucking weirdo say one more time "i'm bad at picking up social cues" i'm gonna lose it. that is her go to excuse for every-fucking-thing and at what point does bad at picking up social cues make you a weirdo, because i say you've been past the fucking point MONTHS ago and you just say that shit because you want people to excuse your weird, predatory behavior on your neurodivergence without having to actually take accountability. WHY i ever fucking thought she was cool and a good writer, i'll never understand, but i am so fucking glad she wasn't able to brainwash me like she did with everyone else who's still up her ass defending her. and if none of yall believe that she's a creep, going after minors? begging a 15 year old virgin to write about a sexual experience, even going as far as saying "take it out your bio" so people won't KNOW she's a minor writing it? THHHAAAATTTSSSS FUUUCCCCKKKINNG WEEEEIRRRDDD ANDDDD GRRROOOOSSSSSS.

DO I NEED TO REPEAT MYSELF FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK? THAT IS WEIRD AND GROSS, AND IT HAS NO PLACE HERE.

and when the day comes when that troglodyte gets what she deserves, that's the day imma fucking be sprinting down my street naked, whooping and cheering for joy. and if you have no idea what i'm talking about, @youarenotalone101 came out, told their story. so proud of them. and if i see anyone trying to excuse her shit now, after seeing those fucking disgusting dms she sent, i'm gonna end up getting myself cancelled bc i don't hold back what i rlly wanna say unlike some people i see. thank you for coming to my ted talk.

[fairyrcts]

hi friends! uhm so i left tumblr for a while due to some things that happened with another creator on this platform. you may know who she is, she was very big in the sturniolo tumblr community and many people loved her. she just deactivated her account, her name's rose and before i knew all of the bad stuff about her, i liked her as a creator too. i've seen a couple other people speak about her, so i've gained some courage to actually come back to this app and say something.

first, i'm so sorry for leaving y'all hanging, i truly love the sturniolo fandom and the multiple friend's i've made on this app, but what happened just made me uncomfortable and i wanted to get away from it completely.

rose and me spoke many times, and of course i was honored because she was such a huge creator here who so many people looked up too. she followed me back and she began messaging me.

yes, i'm 18 (almost 19) and i do write smut, but for some reason it felt odd speaking to rose. she'd ask about my sexual fantasies or my sexual experiences, and there was never really a conversation that me and her had that didn't have to do with anything sexual.

it was weird because we didn't know each other or speak UNLESS it was sexual stuff. eventually, she asked for my personal socials which i ended up refusing to give her because we weren't close like that, and she became very upset.

insults were thrown at me, about my writing, the sexual stuff that she BEGGED me to tell her. i mean, anything mean she could say she said. unfortunately, i have no screenshots because i simply just blocked her to get it over with and left the app.

i'm scared no one will believe me due to lack of evidence, but maybe my story will get mores out. to the other's who were affected by her, i get you and i'm here for you. i love you all dearly, thank you for reading.

[grace-sturnz]

ALL OF ROSES ACCOUNTS AS OF NOW!

@vanvidz-deactivated20241219 @bernardsbendystraws-backup-deac

@bernardsbendystraws

@bernardsbendystraws-bookshelf

as far as i know, she doesn’t have any other accounts. all of her current accounts are deactivated except this one ⬇️

@vanvidz

BLOCK!