spend as much time with family / friends / my people as possible*
travel as much as I can and try to see the world
rest and enjoy the time I have left quietly
try to fulfill a bucket list (finish projects, read books, try these foods, etc)
move to a new place to enjoy being surrounded by people who don't pity / know me
focus on putting all my affairs in order**
try to erase my regrets (text back, apologize to a friend, finish school, etc)
plan an epic farewell party for myself***
write a book about my life
live life as normally as possible
just try to cope / just try not to shut down
spend all my money on things to make me happy and comfortable in my last months