Hello Beautiful People!
I am so sorry I have been MIA lately. So much has happened since I have posted! I hope that you all are doing well! So here is the run down:
My birth mother P landed in the hospital ( were I work) and I braced myself for the worst. She was okay thankfully. I called her the next day and she told me she suffered a seizure or had seizure like activity. She was recovering and she said she was ok. I was relieved that she was okay but I cant help but wonder what she would be like if she lived a healthier lifestyle. I also wished her a Happy Mother’s Day. I usually do every year. Even my mom asked about P from time to time.
I got engaged to my boyfriend on Valentines Day. He surprised me and I of course said yes. We have been dating for three years but we have been friends since 2013. We are hoping to get married soon but everything is soooooo expensive. It’s been fun being engage but tedious as well. All in all things are going well!
I took a DNA test to see if B, Tee and Roddy’s father, was my biological father and he ended up not being my bio father. He was sad and I was sad that he was sad. He says he doesn’t understand because I look just like his soon. I did tell him that this doesn’t have to change the relationship we have. I would like to a DNA test on my biological father though. That would be super interesting or do DNA. testing with my twin brother. I was not particularly sad about B not being my bio father. He is really sweet though and I love the relationship we have.
I am eleven years post reunion and I am so grateful that the work I put in and the work my family put in initially is paying off. I feel like I am not swimming in the sea of unknown anymore. Everyone is just a call away.
Oh yeah I have an essay published in Chicken Soup for the Soul “ I Am Speaking Now” Black Women Share Their Truth In 101 Stories Of Love, Courage, And Hope. It will be available by June and my essay is call Pretty Brown Girl.
Reach out to me! I would love to hear from you!
Peace & Love ~ A