"I could improvise solutions. I could try to re-frame, until I'm left with your admission that I'm not all there is to blame... Don't walk with me. Your dirty feet are obvious. And how can you brag confidence, a willing keen participant in rolling waves of incidents? You've made your bed now sleep in it, you prince... And I'm sorry for explaining how you fucked it up again."🎶👣🌊 ~ "Some people belong in your heart, but not your life" -unknown 💖 This is a quote I have mused on often in recent years. I've always strived to try to forgive and re-welcome people into my life. This, in the past, has worked out well, and some of my closest friends are ones I allowed back in after time apart. Some people, however, no matter how much you may love them with every fiber of your being, can never stop being a person who will hurt you. It's taken me a very... very long time to get to or near a place where I can put myself first, and I'm not even sure if I'm fully there yet. Always be open and always forgive, but never allow people to gas light you or to make you feel guilty for saying what your needs are as a person in any sort of relationship: romantic, familial or friend. Human connections are give and take and both people need to be respected, heard, valued and accounted for. Your needs are not less than someone else's, just because they say so. You are valid. 💞👥💌 . . . . . . #selfie #selfiesunday #redlips #blushycheeks #simplemakeup #winterweather #curiosa #mauradersmap #harrypotter #harrypotterscarf #karllagerfeld #allblackeverything #allblack #blueyes #igblogger #instablogger #personalblogger #westcoastgirl #nakedandfamous #thenakedandfamous #growold #selfforgiveness #movingon #positivity #lettinggo #growth #protectyourself #mentalhealth #youarevalid
