Please don't tell me Happy Father's Day. It's not a compliment. I'm not a man. I'm not a father. My children have very active fathers. I'm divorced, and I'm a mother. I'm single and I'm a mother, But I'm not a single mother. And being single and a mother doesn't make me a father. I did not conceive via immaculate conception. Im not a man. I'm not a father. My children were carried in my womb for nine months, came out of my vagina and were breastfed for two full years. All things a father cannot do. I'm a woman. I'm a mother. I'm a coparent. I also help raise their other children, and those children are mine as well. While the sentiment is well intended, I find it dismissive of their fathers. My children have two grandfathers, one of those grandfathers are not related to any of them by blood. Listen honey, listen. I'm not a man. I'm not a father. father. I'm not a man. I'm not a father. Even if I was raising my children alone, that still wouldn't make me a father. #HappyFathersDay to all called #father, #daddy, #bonusdaddy, #stepdaddy, #papa, #pawpaw, #grandaddy and #bigdaddy. All present fathers, give thanks. To all the fathers trying to do better than they have been, give thanks. All the fathers with or without children of their own raising another man's seed, give thanks. All half stepping fathers, step ya damn game up. The babies need you... in time AND resources and one is not a substitute for the other. Salute all da daddies. ❤️ #iamnotaman #iamnotafather #pleasedonttellmehappyfathersday