Do you know why Isaac loved Esau more than Jacob in the beginning?
Because Jacob was similar to himself while Esau is different from him. Isaac shares many similar characteristics with his younger son Jacob. Jacob was his mother’s favorite; he was Rebekah’s favorite son, just like Isaac who used to be a mama’s boy. I mean of course he has to since he is the only one Sarah and Abraham have as the result of their undying love.
This is how Moses describes about the two guys, “The boys grew up, and Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the open country, while Jacob was content to stay at home among the tents. Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob” Esau was a very good hunter and so manly in everything, when it comes to outside world he knows it better than Jacob, so you should say Jacob was inexperienced compared to Esau.
Now let’s see the words that I want to emphasize on, of how turned out Isaac has a taste for wild game. Do you know how Isaac could develop this kind of taste or I should say, such thought? Well let me take you awhile to the past, to when Isaac was still a kid and soon growing to be a young man.
As our history tells us of how as humankind, we have evolved so much beyond we used to think. “To explore” in order to experience, is probably one of the natures of us that drives us to move more and more towards our future. Some scientists say that Mars is ready to be occupied, or I don’t know. As a normal human especially for a man, “exploring” is probably a must to have to determine your manliness. For women who tend to stay at home, especially in ancient time. Men, women bodies are not the kind of place where you need to explore, in a negative meaning. Honor your women!
Isaac is the true treasure that Sarah and Abraham have. Isaac was long awaited and was long wanted, that’s why the moment he was born, Sarah and Abraham gave everything they have in them for the dream was coming true. Do you know how Isaac got a wife of his own? Do you know how Isaac met with Rebekah? It was by Abraham his own father, it was his father who brought the woman to him. Isaac just stayed still, he never went too far from his father, let alone went somewhere else, to get to know with some women.
Even when Abraham was limited in his moves due to his condition as an old man, for he had to send his trusted servant to make that impossible journey, to find someone worth to have for Isaac on behalf on him. Abraham troubled himself to please Isaac’s heart his son. Abraham was so selective, he was acting like he was the one who was about to marry again, he put himself on Isaac’s shoes. That’s the kind of love Abraham had towards the son (God) was gained by a promise.
You probably think that what I just said was not right, or too exaggerating. For most of the time it is the sons who will try to make their parents to feel proud because of what they have done, just like Jacob. However in the story of how Isaac could gain Rebekah, it’s a story about how a father would try his best to please the heart of his son, because the love Abraham has for Isaac is greater than the love Isaac has for Abraham. Abraham acted that it was him to be married again, so he asked God for something the same, a woman akin to Sarah, the love of his life.
Even when Isaac changed himself into an adult and even after Sarah his mother had died. Isaac still lived with his parent, for Abraham arranged him for a marriage that Isaac himself never met with the woman before, for Abraham didn’t allow Isaac to ever make a step away of him. That’s the kind of upbringing Isaac received from Abraham. Technically Isaac wasn’t a baby anymore, yet Abraham treated Isaac like a living Barbie for him.
I’m not kidding, because in the case of Jacob his son, everything is the opposite one, Jacob had to put efforts in order to gain everything, he slaved himself for seven laborious years for Rachel’s hands, not to mention more years to go to fulfill everything. Isaac didn’t have to kill himself for a woman and a living, oh Abraham was super rich. The only thing he hated in his life was this, a debt. You should read a chapter that tells how Abraham gained Machpelah land as his property, where he first buried Sarah in there.
Even when Abraham married again and gained other sons from other women, Isaac was still his priority and Abraham never changed Isaac lavish lifestyle just because of the other members. MONEY IS NOT A PROBLEM TO ABRAHAM, because his true treasure was his loved ones. Let me make it simpler, Abraham had a son, yet he treated his son like a daughter, crazy right?
What’s crazier about it is, Isaac didn’t mind at all! Weird isn't?