This was the title of my tenth book by Sophia Dembling. It really was a book about Introverts and an introvert lifestyle.
I actually believed I was an extrovert until I was like 17 or 18 - not long ago. Since then a lot of things have changed. I’ve become more and more silent and so much better at listening to what people are saying or telling me. I love to listen. I love to just listen to a good conversation without just putting any effort into it. I love to learn new things and it’s an amazing way of doing so while listening to other opinions. Also I love to read, but I think I’ve made my point about that already.
That book I read last week was about us Introverts (I believe most people online actually are introverts, which is amazing because, hey, now we’ve got a great way of communication without actually suffocating the dreading way of actually talking). It’s about how we usually hate parties (except for any animal creature sitting in a corner) or about sports that are just for us, where we can think. I also learned that being a kind of slow thinker is a good thing. Because we think about it so deeply that it just needs some time to actually be processed in our brains.
However, she always said (at least in this German version I read [which I hope was translated correctly so I won’t talk bullshit here]) that shyness was a negative thing. It seemed to me as though she wanted to explain shyness, but actually described Social Anxiety. As someone who does suffer from Social Anxiety it was a little bit confusing, irritating and even slightly offensive. But that was the only negative thing, really.
This book is great for anyone, whose an introvert or thinks he*she might be. I wouldn’t recommend it to extroverted people, because Dembling usually talks about “us as introverts”. It could irritating, I guess.
This is the link to the English Version.