This is a poem in this series of 144 poems that I’m writing based on the dodeks, or twelfth parts, of the Zodiac signs. As far as I know, everybody else calls them dodekatemoria, but that’s a very complicated word to say, so I just call them dodeks.
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Libra of Virgo: The Specials Board
2° Virgo 30′ to 4° Virgo 59′ // roughly August 23-25
The chef…
This is a poem in this series of 144 poems that I’m writing based on the dodeks, or twelfth parts, of the Zodiac signs. As far as I know, everybody else calls them dodekatemoria, but that’s a very complicated word to say, so I just call them dodeks.
This series is for Patreon supporters only.
Gemini of Virgo: Borrowing Money
22° Virgo 30′ to 24° Virgo 59′
The silverware is thick on whitened…
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Everything You Need to Know Before Getting Your First Loan
Loan
If you’re applying for a loan for the first time, you might feel overwhelmed and confused. Loans can be complex, and it can be tough to understand all the terms involved.
However, with a little bit of research and guidance, you can make informed decisions and make borrowing a pleasant and stress-free experience.
In this post, we’ll talk about everything you need to know before getting your…
I recently read an article from you guys about saying no to family members who ask for money. Well, I followed that advice at first and ended up giving said relative part of what they asked for. I wasn’t nice about it at all and let them know I’m tired of them asking me for money (oh and this is a parent). Said parent then proceeds to guilt me by saying that they’ve sent me money in the past, and yes they have, when I was in college (I worked multiple jobs in college so it’s not like I was sitting on my ass doing nothing).
It’s even worse because they ask for large amounts at a time ($600+) and always seem to neglect that I have bills and savings goals of my own.
How do I be more stern in saying no? My partner sees how much it upsets me when I have to put a plan of mine on the back burner because someone in their 60s who has never learned to make their own way keeps asking for money.
This blows, my dear. It truly blows.
For those who haven't read it yet, here's the article:
Ask the Bitches: How Do I Say “No” When a Loved One Asks for Money… Again?
Now you have two options:
Remember that "no" is a complete sentence. Repeat as necessary.
If the guilting gets too overwhelming, FUCKING LIE. They're the one not taking no for an answer, so we hereby give you permission to say "Even if I wanted to, I couldn't give you the money because I don't have it. I've given so much money to you that I'm behind on my own bills."
Good luck, my dear. You can do this. Here's more inspiration:
Season 1, Episode 11: "I Feel Cornered by a Friend Who Keeps Asking to Borrow Money."
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Comparing Financing Options Unexpected Home Repairs
Disasters happen. Without warning, a roof can suffer damages from a fallen tree or water can flood a basement. Unexpected issues like these can cause a lot of stress for homeowners, especially when they are financially unprepared to handle the repairs.
Safety First
It is not a question of whether these problems will happen, but when. This is why it is so crucial to plan ahead and know what to do in case of an emergency. The first step is to take the necessary safety precautions. For example, if there is a fire, one should first get every family member and pet out of the house and call the fire department. Or, if there is an issue with plumbing, one should begin by turning off the plumbing until a professional can come to handle the issue. It is always important to first ensure the safety of yourself and your family in the case of home emergencies and disasters.
Planning Financially for Home Emergencies
Once the necessary safety measures are completed, it is time to think about financial planning. One of the safest financial plans is to have an emergency fund set up. Having a fund of at least 3 months of living expenses is generally advised to cover any life changes or emergencies that may come up unexpectedly. By already having an emergency fund, in the case of needing a major home repair, a homeowner would have this stash to cover repair expenses without impacting the home’s regular cashflow. However, a large percentage of homeowners are financially unprepared to pay for large home repairs. If this is the case, it is necessary to explore alternative funding options. Here are three financing options for homeowners facing unexpected repairs.
1. Personal Loans
Most people head to their bank first to apply for a personal loan. Before making a final decision on a lender, homeowners should do plenty of research. This is especially important with personal loans since loan terms can vary. When researching lenders, one should compare rates and fees to get an understanding of the total cost of the loan.
It should also be considered that of all the available borrowing options mentioned here, this is not the quickest as the application process is extensive and there are often tougher applicant requirements in place such as requiring a higher credit score, longer credit history, or higher income requirements. If there are repairs that are absolutely essential and need to be completed immediately, homeowners may want to explore other options.
2. Borrowing from Friends or Family
Homeowners should only borrow money from family or friends when it is really needed, since financial issues may strain a relationship if loans are not repaid when expected. Borrowing from a close friend, however, can be a good option to pursue for those with bad credit or those who may otherwise not qualify for a loan themselves. When asking friends and family to borrow money, request a minimal amount that would help offset out-of-pocket costs without placing the friend in financial strain. It may also be helpful to request smaller amounts from multiple people, so that the burden of the loan is more broadly distributed. In either case, it is important for the borrower to be honest with their friends and family about their needs and their ability and timelines to pay back any borrowed money.
3. Installment Loans
Installment loans are short term personal loans that can be fairly easy to obtain, which makes them good for emergencies. Credit requirements are less stringent with an installment loan. These loans are usually available for relatively small amounts of money from a few hundred dollars to over a thousand.
Repayment is flexible and is broken down into weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly installments, depending on the lender, and the entire loan should be paid off by the end of the term period. Term lengths vary from lender to lender, and sometimes from loan to loan, so it is important that borrowers review loan documents and agreements carefully to understand their repayment obligations.
Major home damage can happen at any time. If homeowners are not prepared, they can easily become overwhelmed with thinking about how to pay for repairs. However, there are short-term lending options that can help homeowners obtain the money needed for their home. If necessary, homeowners should consider all of their borrowing and financing options when making a decision to take out a loan to fix their homes.
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