#boundary

[moviecritc]

Why can't a person interact with your account if he is a man? I know you're a lesbian, but still, this rule seems pretty stupid and pointless

thank god it's my blog and i can do whatever the fuck i want

[misterlemonztenth]

04-21-26 | They say there's "a veil" between this world and the next. Misterlemonztenth.tumblr.com/archive

[thegirlthatcriesacademia]

I began to draw an invisible boundary between myself and other people. No matter who I was dealing with. I maintained a set distance, carefully monitoring the person's attitude so that they wouldn't get any closer. I didn't easily swallow what other people told me. My only passions were books and music.

— Haruki Murakami, Sputnik Sweetheart

[cowsabungus]

Gang I love all my followers and those who interact w my art but pls stop asking me if ur character is a good representation of disability. I love ur work I love to see ur disabled characters that's different.

Specifically being like "im writing a book and this character has xyz and I have ideas about it and I was wondering if you would tell me about-" I had to do the research too, a lot of it, and you're genuinely asking me to do the research for you, to work out how your character could be a better embodiment of disability for your story.

Showing me ur art like "is this right?" Sure!! Absolutely! Because it takes me a few seconds to glance and know if a prosthetic or wheelchair is drawn correctly.

Equally tell me all about ur character so I can gush too, I loveeee an infodump about ur OCs.

But .... I'm not going to analyse ur story to work out if you did a good job. Pay me to be ur sensitivity reader sure. But I'm not doing it for free, thats like years of research I've done to start to call myself specialised in understanding crip representation and the effects it might have and how it should be done and why it should be done like that.

No hard feelings to anyone who has before because it's never been something I've said up until this point, and I did a lot of posts about it.

[crispywritings]

I don't have the time watch Avidmc streams, but I want to refer to Avid correctly and want to know if any of Avid's boundary or anything have changed can someone just give me a overview.

[hopethesillyheartwitch]

If it isn't too much to ask, if we are moots and you post about CRK, I would recommend tagging your posts with "Callie don't look". This fandom has genuenly soured my opinion on the game and I don't wanna touch it with a ten foot poll anymore. Thank you.

[the-healing-mindset]

You're now able to recognize more easily the situations that aren't favorable to your existence and well-being. You take greater care to avoid environments or people who are unhealthy.

There is nothing wrong with that. From time to time, you may still find yourself somewhere that isn't desirable, but that's okay. You can bounce back from a situation like that much faster than before and apply the lessons sooner rather than later.