#brittanyc

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Just a girl.

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LET THERE BE LIGHT!

Happy astronomical New Year mother f*ckerssss! Haha, we’ve made it back to the other side. May your New Year be filled with passion, positivity and peace. The beginning of spring is upon us. The plants are blooming and flourishing, the weather is the perfect warmth, the sun is out for longer during the day……ugh, I love it here. Aries season literally forces a shift in your energy because there is literally a shift in the world around you. We have arrived to relay the foundation and ignite the fire. So accept all these good ass vibes. Take advantage of it and put the effort into doing the things you been wanted to do. Big, small and all the things in between. As many of you may know, I was born on March 30th. Making me a certified Aries baby. And if you ask anyone who knows me they’ll tell you that I am, in fact, the head of the Aries association. Lol! But seriously, I’ve never met an Aries I didn’t like, the energy always aligns. Honorable mention: Sag & Leo’s. My fellow fire signs. May we all continue to bring the heat, passion and energy to the world and to those around us. So again, I wish you all a Szn full of nothing but W’s. May both the universe and the highest power bless you in all aspects. What a time to be alive.

With love, Brittanyc

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When did it become uncool to be yourself?

We live in a world today where if you don’t have the same mindset, lifestyle, clothes or interests that most people appear to have, you’re not “cool”. Its like their can be only one personality and we all have to share it. Be yourself. Nobody can be you as good as you. Isolate yourself if you have to, go outside and touch some grass, log out your socials for some time, PRAY and tap into real life. God hand crafted all of us individually to be who he wanted us to be. So how you gonna complete the mission he gave to you when you’re trying to complete someone else’s mission. Get back on your own path. Separate yourself when you feel you’re losing yourself and get back to you. Being yourself is the coolest thing you can do. Make being yourself cool again!

With love, Brittany C

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How you leave me deep in the dark when I gave you light?

One of the most heartbreaking experiences has to be experiencing someone in their darkness and becoming their light or helping them to find the light while losing yours. Putting yourself through that comes with so much mental, internal and emotional abuse. Sometimes I feel like that person came into your life to use you for just that. To get that light from you. I don’t know, maybe that’s how the universe works. Cause it seems like as soon as their mood, energy and life starts to better in any way, they throw you to the wolves. One day they’ll wake up, be rescued and sail away eventually. Now you’re left with just a little less sparkle than you had when you first experienced them. To love someone so much that you allow yourself to live in their darkness just to be able to get in there and shed some light, aw man. It’s kinda like the saying “hurt people, hurt people”. I feel like it’s very similar because “dark people, darken people”. People….not just partners, people will really drain your energy then go on with their lives. Be safe, stay dangerous. Protect your energy and if you ever fumble yourself just work on getting back to yourself. After all, we already came to the conclusion that the journey back to yourself happens a lot of times in this lifetime…..

With love, Brittanyc

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How are we doing out there ? Cause “seasonal depression” ain’t no joke! I’d know. Sometimes I can pinpoint the reason but sometimes sadness would just completely overtake my body and I wouldn’t know why. Although I haven’t suffered from it this year, I’ve suffered from it most years prior to, since I’ve been an “adult”. For me, I’d say it usually starts in September. But I’ve learned that everybody is different. The appearance and vibe of fall/winter is beautiful…..until it isn’t. Fall can quickly turn into a sad and depressing moment. Something about the cold, leaves falling, rain, snow and most definitely the time change that has the power to alter my mood. So what do I do when I start to realize the shift in my mood? First off, I try to spend time around loved ones. Whether it’s physically or even over the phone. I love to spend time alone but when my mood isn’t at its best, I like to be around some love. Another thing that helps me is taking a break from life and going outside to do absolutely nothing. Sit outside, inhale some fresh air and just observe the world around you. Maybe even bring your bible or a book. Traveling is another thing that boosts my mood. Yes, this is a costly fix but it’s a fix worth mentioning nonetheless. Booking a flight ain’t never hurt nobody! I’m a huge music girly so listening to gospel and inspirational/motivational music is one of my go to’s also. Try eating better. 25 & up crew!!!! What we are intaking in our body daily plays a part in our mental health. Trust me! Create a routine daily that includes the things you enjoy and do it everyday until you shake that feeling. Fight that feeling every time it tries to sneak up on you until you shake it. Even the happiest of people have their days.

Signed one of the happiest girls in the world,

Brittany C

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Is moving in ways that are healing to solely yourself considered maniac?

I don’t know if this is a good or bad thing but I always move in ways that are healing for me. Regardless of the consequences, regardless of the other parties involved, regardless of what the “safest” path looks like. I mean yeah, sometimes I do think “should I really do this” but Brittanyis gonna do what Brittany gotta do so she doesn’t wake up with regrets tomorrow. If I miss someone, I text them. If I love someone, I tell them. If I wanna jump out the sky, imma jump. Whatever my heart calls for, I do. I’m a very impulsive person. Maybe cause I’m an Aries or maybe just because that’s me. But even though sometimes it may be the cause of conflict and disappointment, if my heart calls for it imma do it. I don’t know how to explain it. My body and mind literally do not allow me to think, feel, or want something without me actually doing it or getting it. Well maybe I never tried to go against it tbh. I don’t really care to and that’s because regardless of what the outcome is, I feel healed. I feel complete because I followed my heart. Even my impulsive decisions that have had bad outcomes have healed me. Y’all think I’m crazy? I’m just a free spirit with a wild heart I guess….

With love, Brittany C

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Are their women left that still cater to their man?

Women these days want a man to give them their money, life, heart and soul before they even decide to like the man, in return for nothing. I can 100% confirm men want to be catered to. To the men who don’t require any form of catering though, raise your standards boo. Yes, I do think we should be courted but he should be shown love too. Dang. I’m not a relationship girl but when I am in a relationship imma go above and beyond for my man every time as long as he’s deserving. Nothing makes me happier than making my man happy if he’s making me happy! And I’ve seen firsthand the positive vibe and energy it not only brings my man but the whole relationship. So as long as he’s deserving ladies, let’s get back into the art of catering like a real ass woman should. Run your man a bath, cook a meal, help with a random bill, rub his back, random sloppy toppy,act of appreciation , a date night, pay for his haircut, purchase some lingerie for nasty time or simply give him some silence & space. Maybe learn a new trick or something idk! You know better than me what your man likes but I’m sure one of these won’t hurt. Dating, relationships, and marriage should feel like a give and take. A man who feels appreciated will automatically be motivated to make his lady happy and improve his daily life. Yes, love and appreciation can do all that! Men aren’t expecting much so the simplest thing will make him feel appreciated. Both good men and women are rare these days, take care of yours. Love yours. And never stop showing your love & appreciation! It’ll never get old. Alexa play cater 2 u by Destiny’s child……

With love, Brittvnyc