Too often do we see people, companies, societies, governments tell everyone what "type of person" they should be and how to behave in order to be "acceptable". This may be helpful to some, but for others it's burdensome. Regardless of who you are and what you do, if you care about your selfhood, lean into your nature, and ensure that your aspirations are aligned with your internal world. It is inevitable that for everyone's benefit you will have to adapt to a situation to some extent in some way--just don't lose sight of your core if you care.
