#brochos

[bennistar]

“One of the biggest chassudim the Eibishter did is, you can eat a gantze seuda and only make a Borei Nefashos” - my friend (after stuffing ourselves full)

[bennistar]

With Yamim Tovim and special occasions we have to say shehechiyanu. Why doesn't the chatan say it under the chuppah or on the day of his chatuna?

Hi there Anon,

That's a good and interesting question. The meforshim on Kiddushin 2 bring it down as well. They answer that we only make a shehechiyanu over something new. When we find something that we once lost we don't make a blessing over it. 

Same thing with a marriage. We're only finding the wife which was really part of us from the beginning. We 'only' found our lost other half after such a long time. So therefore we don't make a shehechiyanu.

May every one in Klal Yisroel soon find their 'other half'!